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Okay I guess I am still in denial, I found a lot of signs that my husband is cheating on me, like blood in the underwear, sperm on a sock, and a cassette tape that was made with love songs on it, well it has been a month since I found all of this and guess what, I found blood in his underwear again, which is exactly 1 month later. What do I do, I need him to admit. But he won't, I need help. we just got married in July
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You know, my H had a condition where he got blood blisters "down there" that would pop occasionally. Maybe that's what your H's problem is. I would talk to him about the blood in the underwear and ask if he's seen any blisters.....
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Denial,<P>How in the heck do you know that was "sperm" on a sock? Just curious?<P>Jo
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Resilient:<BR><STRONG>Denial,<P>How in the heck do you know that was "sperm" on a sock? Just curious?<P>Jo</STRONG><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>That's what I want to know! It's also possible he was having a little alone fun and the sock was just handy...? And maybe I'm not seeing clearly, but if he WERE having an A, how would blood get in his underwear?
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My guess regarding the blood in the undies, Almost Broken, is Denial is thinking the OW was on her mensus both times (i.e, both occurences were one month apart)<P>Am I on track, Denial?<P>But I still don't get he sperm thing.<P>Jo
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Okay to clear up some things, you were on track with the OW being on her menso, and as far as the sock goes, he said that he was having fun alone time. No he hasn't noticed any blisters, however he does have an appointment tomorrow with a specialist to see if they can find anything wrong. Maybe I am just letting my imagination run away with me. I guess I will just keep my eyes and ears open
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Was the blood at the front or back of the underwear...<P>And I would go with my gut. I ignored so many things in the past. Now I learn that I was justified. <P>You are not stupid...he just wants you to think you are.<P>Love and light,<P>Jacky
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It was in the front both times, and the first time looked like it had sperm with it, but the second time it did not. My gut tells me I will find out for sure eventually, I just don't know how long it will take. He is a good talker.
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