Ooooh!! Ooooh! MY TURN!!!<p>"What does my H's OW look like?" <p>Well, I've never really seen her, BUT she's been described to me (by WH) as "weighs about 300-400 lbs.<p>Described by someone who DID see them together, as "kinda tall, yes, heavy, & big boobs."<p> In other words, LIKE HIS MAMA.<p>HOW SICK IS THAT?!?!?!?!?!

My STBX's OW is the younger fitter thinner taller model. same coloring as me and totally understands him.

My H's XOW had a cute face but a fat butt and saggy boobs [she sent a very embarrassing nude to my H and thought she looked quite lovely in it. yikes!] I am told I am much more attractive and I work out 5X a week so I have a very good figure. Her biggest problem was her character, of which she had none. She is married with 2 kids and brings men she meets on the internet to her house to play around when her H is out of town - she introduces them to her kids. A real upstanding character!<p>Here she is:<p>http://hometown.aol.com/twothdr58/

Wow Lizabeth, Didn't know anyone had a bigger age difference than my H and OW. He's 49 and she's 22. I'm 50 and no celebrity look-alike, but still in good shape (though I had a few parts rearranged due to mastectomy and reconstructive surgery). <p>OW on the other hand has nothing special to offer but her youth. She weighs more than twice as much as me, even more than my H, and she's plain looking with dirty blonde hair in no particular style. <p>H insists that her age had nothing to do with it, that she seems so mature to him, but I know her and she's not. But neither was H when he was with her. He bought an old Porsche, started listening to rap music and smoking pot, and stopped going to work. MLC?

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by MelodyLane:
<strong>MShe is married with 2 kids and brings men she meets on the internet to her house to play around when her H is out of town - she introduces them to her kids. A real upstanding character!<p>Here she is:<p>[/URL]</strong><hr></blockquote><p>Hee hee. Someone needs to tell her the 80s called and they want their hairdo back. I notice she didn't include shagging married men and cheating on her husband as hobbies or interests lol.

I'm going to answer on both sides. I was the WS and now I am the BS.<p>My OM was 11 years younger than I. He was tall, muscular, dark hair, green eyes. Sounds good eh? He was as plain as the they come and it didn't matter because he gave me the attention that was sorely lacking in my marriage.<p>WH's OW is probably mid 40's. Tall, thin, short auburn hair, gorgeous green eyes, a total package of a beautiful woman. She is also married, has had many affairs, and has the morals of an alley cat.<p>So to say beauty is only skin deep seems correct here and I guess "love" is blind even when it's really only "lust".

Haven't seen her myself, but what I know is skinny body with stingy little tits, lifeless blonde hair and the brain of a slug. Hmmm...she'd make any man drool, wouldn't she?<p>Rose Red<p>P.S. If I were a single, Barbie-type, would I want some other woman's baggage-laden husband with a few thousand miles on him? No way--I'd want my own hunk to lead around by the nose. No wonder all these OW/OM's are so pathetic. They must realize deep down that they can't get/don't deserve someone with total freedom of choice.<p>[ January 08, 2002: Message edited by: Rose Red ]</p>

What a great topic!<p>Our OW was the person at my wh's office parties I felt sorry for because she has a "I want to be an extra in Grease" ridiculous beach blond haircut, wears gobs of that gooey 'my face is a different color than my neck' makeup and tons of lipstick, and has a body that reveals oh-so-easily the three kids she's had and obviously never gotten into shape from. It turns out that she's my age, but I actually thought she was around 38-40...she looks terrible. I had pictures of her from a party and emailed them to my WH's sis (my best friend) and she was stunned! Her image of her brother as the guy who only like hotties was gone forever - direct quote!<p>on a side note, <p>I went to WH's work the other night (he works nights and she's still there) dressed up to meet my brother downtown - Yes I looked awesome in my new size 6 outfit....who's the first person I run into on the floor (hospital)? - "not so little" old OW....<p>I gave her the once up and once down, did the "I won" hair flounce thingy and proceeded down the hall to receive my well-earned oohs and ahhs from WH's other co-workers.....<p>can someone tell me if this is what heaven feels like???? hehehehehe<p>LLL

OM has a web site with his picture on it, how I want to post the link here for all to see, maybe I should, but wouldn't that be sort of like an LB? Anyway, the clown uses drugs, likes porn, doesn't help his W do hardly anything around the house, had an A about a year ago with a friends fiancee, spends all his free time on the couch, has no motivation to do anything with his life, just a real winner. And W choose that guy over me, talk about rubbing salt in the wounds! Why do they choose such losers?

All I know about my H OW is that she was over 200# not long ago. When he and the OW had their sexual frenzy, she was still somewhat overweight. H said she had a nice butt, poochy tummy and had bald spots on her head. So I see this (saw a picture of her a long time ago, she was heavy in the picture). I see a dark haired woman, with thin stringy hair, with bald spots, lots of stretch marks, and loose hanging skin. She is about 2" taller than me. H told me so. I see her breasts falling down to her belly button, and cellulite everywhere. Hey, she had what he wanted.
Body, mind, witty, cellulite, not withholding in the sex department. I would of not done what she did, only seeing the OP that day. We live 2000 miles away. But of course, she has already had the experience of having another sexual affair in her marriage 10 years ago. I guess it won't be long for the next affair.

The stringiest thinnest flattest head of hair you've ever seen.... A huge beak of a nose.... I mean HUGE!!! Saggy boobs and big hips (this came from my MIL and sister)..... And to top that off, she let my kid get burnt tonight while she was helping her "cook" supper......

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by fairydust:
<strong><p>Hee hee. Someone needs to tell her the 80s called and they want their hairdo back. I notice she didn't include shagging married men and cheating on her husband as hobbies or interests lol.</strong><hr></blockquote><p>LOLOL fairydust, you kill me!

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by MelodyLane:
<strong><p>LOLOL fairydust, you kill me!</strong><hr></blockquote><p>I agree Dana Jo ... that's our very own Fairydust, she pretty much ROCKS!