Hi to all, I have missed you all. Hope everyone is having a good start to the new year.<p>things are really bad with me, I must take my H to court he is not paying any of the bills, my
life is turning totally upside down and there is not a damn thing I can do.<p>I am trying to be strong everyday. I have not been around here in a while I became ill with pneumonia I have not been able to work or function this past month. I really missed talking to you all.<p>My wh is being so cruel and treating me and the kids horribly, Well i could go on and on, but I just wanted to let you know I have been thinking about all of you, I will write more at a later time.<p>
Love Sally

Sad Sally! I have wondered about you often and sad to hear that things are going so badly. Glad you are alive, please keep us posted!<p>
a hug----->{{{{{{{{{{{{{SALLY}}}}}}}}}}

Gawd this is weird, I was just thinking about you, your antennae must have been up. You've been missed!<p>How are you, Sally. I'm sorry you were so sick. That's two MBer's that have conracted pneumonia in the last couple months. Cali had it too.<p>I had pneumonia in '2000, the rad treatments ravaged my body's organs and immune system and I was pretty sick. Point is, my XH was horrible to me when I was sick too, just like yours. He was mean and so uncaring, it totally surprised me, he had always been a pretty caring and thoughtful spouse up until the A. So don't take it personally Sally. They are just so selfish, they can't see anything but what they want and need. Everything is about them. One day they will regret it, I know my XH is already feeling the guilt.<p>I hope you had someone to help you out with the kids while you were sick. Why don't you give us an update of what's been happening? It always helps to tell someone about things. We do care yanno.<p>Love,
Jo<p>[ January 08, 2002: Message edited by: Resilient ]</p>

Thanks Guys for your caring, melodyLane Thanks for your thoughts, I was thinking about you guys also.<p>
Hi Jo, thanks Yeh, I was pretty sick, My mom and sister and brother all helped with the kids. I have been so depressed and sad latley.<p>
I will write again and update you all, Thanks you so much for your reply.<p>
Love Sally

Sally,
Sorry to hear you have been ill. Pneumonia has really been going around here. One of my students lost their four year old sister two weeks ago from it and yesterday another 4 year old died from it. Pretty scary. It seems to come on fast.<p>Take care of yourself and make sure you are getting medical attention. Wonder if this is a new bug going around?<p>I am afraid my marriage is in bad shape too. I have only answered posts lately...too depressed to even think about my situation at this time.<p>You take care of yourself...I've been thinking about you and wondering how things were going. Remember to take what they say with a grain of salt. Hard to believe they can be so cruel.

Hiya Sally,<p>Almost put an sos out for you yesterday.... you must have felt my vibes [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img] !!!! LOL! <p>I am glad to hear from you but sorry to hear you have been so ill. Good thing you have family around to help out. <p>Sorry about the H being such a jerk. Do what you need to protect your family Sally. You sound resolved more than before. <p>Hugz,
L.

Hugzz...Sally...<p>I am sorry you are having a hard time of it... remember to take care of yourself... I am glad you had family to help you w/ kids...<p>As Resilient said, I had pneumonia too... but a mild case. I was back at work within a week... luckily my Mom was here visiting and she was a great help!<p>Things are up and down for me... roll on rollercoaster...lol...<p>Cali

Hi MnM, Yes I heard of a few people that are sick with this also. Sorry to hear some children have died from it, gosh that is terrible. I am also to depressed to talk about my situation. I have to take my H to court he is not paying the bills, everything is a mess, I will talk about again. thank you for your thoughts, I missed you.<p>
Hi Orchid, yes I am more resolved, I just wish it didn't have to come to all this turmoil, but he caused it all, its grea to hear from you. Hope things are good with you.<p>Hi cali, its great to hear from you also, I know how that roller coaster ride is, I will write again a give you all an update about my situation, Thanks so much for your reply.<p>
Love and Hugs
Sally

Gosh, [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img]
First of all, of course I remember you and I remember when you talked about the tatoo being removed and I just couldn't believe it and didn't know what to say so I didn't post to you. Still, I was thinking of you and how that must have hurt you so much. And that is one thing, but to be hurting the kids by withholding support, that is just plain awful.<p>So get yourself well, be strong, and do whatever you need to do to help your kids. There is no way he should get away with any of this type of neglectful behavior.<p>Oh and don't panic about the bills, they will always be there. Just make sure you guys have food and don't be too proud to ask people for help if you really need it!!! We have not because we ask not!!!<p>I would be happy to help in any way I could. So don't hesitate to ask for what you need and let God do the rest.