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I told my WS I dont love him anymore, and this time its not out of anger but out of realising I'm a fool for loving someone who despises me so much and that there is nothing I like about him anymore...I just dont love who hes become. I feel this is the beginning of the end of something that was supposed to be so wonderful. My heart is so heavy.<p>AH
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Hi AH,
I feel for you so much. I have also come to the realization that I don't love the man my H has become either. I can't forgive the hurt he has put me through. The pain of him living next door and buying her jewelry is just too much. He is not the same man I have been married to for 22 years. I ask myself all the time if he were to miraculously transform back into the man I loved, would I take him back?? I don't honestly know. At this point in time, he has hurt me too badly. I guess my point in all of this is for you to remember that your H is not the same man you married and you have to ask yourself the same question...if he were to transform back into the person you fell in love with, would you be able to forgive him? Would you love him then? I don't know if this makes any sense, but just my 2 cents.
BH
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