What do you think? I am just tossing & turning can't get to sleep. After I talked to OW#2 & WH moving out, WH is now calling OW#1 for whatever. Advice, sympathy, sounding board, trying to start up again, I don't know. I know this because I check the call record.<p>Presently we are nice & affectionate with each other and wearing wedding rings. It was not good after I talk to OW#2. WH stop seeing his counselor and mentioned something about seeing a counselor from the church. I know after WH & OW#1 broke up, she was still a "friend" and he took OW#1 advice on gifts & etc. Ow#1 told WH that he should tell me the truth about OW#2 last JUly.<p>I now know he has a sounding board other than OW#2, what do you make of this. I haven't talk to OW#1 since July, but WH & I have talked that she seemed to be a better person than OW#2. OW#1 & WH broke up because OW#1 could tell WH was still in love with me & that WH was living in a fantasy world. OW#1 has been divorced for 5 years and now lives 700 miles from here. OW#1 moved & took another job trying to get back together with a former boyfriend, they have been living together for the last 3 years.<p> Plus WH is a week ahead mailing cards to the kids. WH has never planned ahead about greeting cards let alone writing in then. WH mention this tonight when we briefly talked. That was before I knew about the phone calls to OW#1. What should I do, keep quite about them or ask?<p>BTW when WH mentioned recommitting, but he couldn't write the no-contact letter I included both of their names to receive his letter.<p>Will now maybe I can go to sleep, since I vented.
