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H says he likes things the way they are... I am being nicer to him than ever in the face of all this +++++@*@* anyway, he likes that... he gets to do what he wants and no reprecussions, he gets to see me, and the kids... well, I am wondering... feeling since he blames everything on me, i should plan a more, but in realaity , truth be known... he has always been irresponsible, etc.. the affair just takes the cake... and he is not very sorry... starting to say he realizes he was wrong... but that is it... I have had it up to here... with him telling everyone how horrible I am, and people like his dad... another adulterer buying it hook line and sinker... oh boy!<p>HUGS, honey
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Do some of them, WS's, like having the cake and eating it too? Ws, says oh, we get along better than ever before now... YES, well I go along with whatever he wants mostly or leave him alone.. this is not good M, right kids, what about POJA? t hanks, HONEY
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In Plan A... you can and should, periodlically, let your WS that you are being hurt by the continued affair.<p>You can even let your spouse know... ..."you're corrent condition (being nice)... cannot go on forever... if there is indiffernce to YOUR needs... especially the need for fidelity!"<p>Keep it (Plan A) for as long as you can... ...but don't feel guilty when it comes to an end!<p>We all have limits... ...and an abusive situation (non-recipticated Plan As...)... will end!<p>You have my prayers.<p> [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Jim/NSR
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Thanks very much, fortunatley the OP has not contacted my H for a few weeks, but he is mad... he preferred she stay in the pic... but now she is with her H, and staying I think, since he pays the bills, etc... she sd she could never put up with him paying child support and having kids with his wife, etc... basicially she is selfish, and jsut took what she wanted... he says... I thought she was more like you???? How twisted is that! Anyway, that makes plan a easier... but I do want reciprocated actions, and I am not getting them.. HONEY
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