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When I come to this board, I find such insightful postings, and so many people are going through what I am, I just wish I could talk to some of you! I am icq 13577531<P>I was the betrayer and for my full story you can icq me. My H is here and things are ok, but it's a rebuilding process. Anyway, I am in great need of support from other people in my position or even the other side. Just to talk I guess. Hard to try to talk to H because he's still hurt. But so am I. So....<P>Thanks.
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Sad, <BR>I am also going through the same as you, and often feel lost, lonely, and that no one can understand. I was the betrayer, and my H is still here too, but he doesn't want to work through anything, he would rather pretend nothing happened. This can make it harder- I just want him to yell at me and tell me how much I hurt him. I don't know what the ICQ means, but I'm sure we could support one another. I put a few posts at the bottom of "Help, she's working late tonight" and some of my story is there.
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Sad4now I registered just now so I could respond to your post. Shortly after our 30th anniversary I found H is committed to an OW. He communicates with her on ICQ I learned and have found it under programs on this computer but have not figured out how to get myself on there. If you could tell me I would be happy to talk to you and maybe we could help each other.
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I have ICQ. Number 44116381. I'm usually online most of the day at the office.
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I am also a betrayer,i am 36 female living in canada......icq me at 23012047........i also have a few posts on here look them up......thanx..........;-) ~JANICE~
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I am a 42 year old, 20 year marriage Betrayed man, looking for insight from woman betrayers. W is still home but wants to leave sometime soon to "try out her new life". I think the betrayers perspecitve might help me...<P>ICQ 27256463... only if you really want to talk about THIS only... I've done cyber and all that and am serious about my marriage now.<P>Thanks and best to you all.
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Sorry to sound ignorant here. But what is ICQ? and how do you get it? I would love to have it to communicate with my family. It sounds like instant messages as in AOL.
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Clare,<BR>Check out icq.com to download.<BR>The best way to explain ICQ is it's real time chat. You can actually "see" the letters as the other person types them. It's the next best thing to talking. When you logon to ICQ after you've logged onto the internet, your "contacts"(friends on your chat list) will be notified when you're online. For instance, my best friend in NC gets online, logs onto ICQ...then I decide to check my email, log onto the internet, log onto ICQ...when I do I will be notified that she is online and vice versa. Hope this helps. The best thing to do is download it and just check it out. Good luck. <BR><P>------------------<BR>For I know the thoughts I think<BR>toward you, saith the Lord,<BR>thoughts of peace, not of evil,<BR>to give you an expected end.<BR>Jeremiah 29:11<BR>
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Hi All,<BR>I just exchanged ICQ# with some people on here. It's pretty easy to download and fun to chat on. My ICQ# is 34817847 and my nickname is alley. I will chat with anyone who wants to talk, I believe talking about our problems helps to diminish the pain involved.........especially if I have no one to talk to about it in my own life......tho I believe that fact is a symptom of our bigger problems. Hope to see you on ICQ!<BR><P>------------------<BR>alleyoop<BR>
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JohnsWife,<BR>If you have ICQ on the computer you are using go to programs and click on ICQ. It will have a list of things for you to do in ICQ. Open ICQ and you will see a list of people registered to your computers ICQ #. There can be more than one # and nick however. I discovered my H's cyber-girl-friend when I inadvertantly found ICQ. I am a computer dummy! But I get smarter every day! Good luck and ICQ me if you get on.<BR><P>------------------<BR>alleyoop<BR>
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I also have ICQ but am not on very often. I have other posts elsewhere.. One in Other Topics... check it out.. I would be happy to get together and talk.. We are all wounded in one way or another and looking for support. My ICQ# is 43083137. Look forward to chatting with you all.<P>------------------<BR>"Despite Everything, I still believe people are basically good at heart" Anne Frank - "Diary of Anne Frank"<BR>
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