can you please help me remember where I saw this quote:<p>"I'm in my third marriage now "<p>I mean seriously??? You GOTTA be kidding! I wonder who is the mental retard, with MULTIPLE loose screws, zero-self esteem loser here...I mean how much cheating, lying, dumping can a person get???<p>I'm just asking you because you seem to be the Mother Queen expert here...<p>Men, what people said on some people on the board IS really true! No wonder you're bitter like that after a lifetime of living like this...<p>At 52 y/o??? LMAO! This is too much! You know the saddest part of it is? Is that you actually think you qualify to give other people advice in here...lol. Even a 22 y/o like me would have figured that out! lol<p>Ok, Ok. I promised I wouldn't post anymore...I will keep this promise from now on. But I surely can't promise you that I won't continue do some interesting reading...in your past...<p>Now, where's my bowl of popcorn?...lol<p> [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]<p>[ March 07, 2002: Message edited by: AngelEyes1 ]</p>

Lisa-OW<p>Please. Get a life already... You are soooo... t-i-r-e-d... (that's slang for annoying)<p>Hey zorweb,
Since this thread is in your honor, just let me say that I appreciate your insight and experience and willingness to share what you have survived.

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by AngelEyes1:
<strong>...I mean seriously??? You GOTTA be kidding! I wonder who is the mental retard, with MULTIPLE loose screws, zero-self esteem loser here...I mean how much cheating, lying, dumping can a person get??? </strong><hr></blockquote><p>Yes, Lisa-OW you should also be able to answer this question as you were inquiring over on EN forum about whether or not your MM would leave his W for you after you have now waited for him for FIFTEEN years...<p>I wasn't going to say anything about how ridiculous your question was, but you really need to examine your own situation before you throw stones... IF you were even for real to begin with.<p>Popcorn? This is your idea of entertainment. You are such a weirdo...

Hmmm... and I don't believe you are 22 either. Maybe you have been waiting for your MM to leave his wife SINCE you were 22!!! [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]

All.... I thought that this thread would be enhanced if I shared the email she sent met here, along with her email address.
"Lisa OW" <lisa_ow65@hotmail.com>

Now I would not normally post anything a person sent me in confidence as I respect everyone's privacy. But this is something totally different. [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] <p>One of the things I learned in life is to stop abuse and ignorance one must expose it at every juncture.<p>______<p>can you please help me remember where I saw these quotes: <p>"I'm in my third marriage now " <p>"Affairs were during our engagement and first 9 months of marriage.
Cyber/Phone affairs with 10 women, Weekend fling with one of them, met 4 others for lunch/dinner dates" <p>I mean seriously??? You GOTTA be kidding! I wonder who is the mental retard, with MULTIPLE loose screws, zero-self esteem loser here...I mean how much cheating, lying, dumping can a person get??? <p>To take that kind of crap during a marriage is one thing, but to take it during an engagement and not walk away??? You must seriously be a doormat. Or you're probably such an ugly person (inside and out) and cannot get any man, that you just have to endure any kind of treatment from any man... <p>I'm just asking you because you seem to be the Mother Queen expert here... <p>Men, what people said on some people on the board IS really true! No wonder you're bitter like that after a lifetime of living like this... <p>At 52 y/o??? LMAO! This is too much! <p>Ok, Ok. I promised I wouldn't post anymore...I will keep this promise from now on. But I surely can't promise you that I won't continue do some interesting reading...in your past... <p>Now, where's my bowl of popcorn?...lol <p>
Lisa_OW <p>P.S. Don't even bother to reply to this email as I will not receive you reply. And I won't be going to the MB board to read your potential reply. I already bookmarked your history for futher reading. I would also seriously get and HIV test if I were you...probably WAY overdue... <p>------<p>[ March 07, 2002: Message edited by: zorweb ]</p>

Hmmm.... hotmail.com!!??<p>Don't be surprised if you start getting some really sexually disgusting and explicit spam in your inbox. Happened to me when I gave out my personal e-mail to someone on here who was not an MBer...<p>Anyways, I know this thread will soon be CLOSED so I just wanted to say again while I have the opportunity that YOU ROCK, z...<p>Keep MBing cuz it's working for ya! [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img]<p>[ March 07, 2002: Message edited by: BINthereDUNthat ]</p>

lisa-ow65@hotmail.com<p>OH! Now I get it! She's really SIXTY-FIVE years old!<p>Imagine that, waiting around for the MM to leave his wife until she is SIXTY-FIVE! Sounds reasonable to me! [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] DUH!

It's scary that people like this are walking around loose. I just pray she doesn't have children.

BTDT,<p>I replied to your email and to hers.<p>The nice thing about hotmail is that spam and other sum can be blocked.<p>I agree that this one sounds a lot like reality check... maybe he had a sex change operation? [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] <p>She/he/it (SHI) will be back dispite SHI's insistance with every post that SHI will never return. Why? It's a game with SHI.<p>No response is that best response with creatures of the night like this one.

SHI,<p>I am none of what you say about me. You see the person who does the evil is the tainted person. Not the one who it is done to. Like right now. I am not belittled, insulted or made any less of a person by your crap.<p>On the other hand, your actions have degraded YOU.<p>And SHI, don’t choke on that popcorn…..<p>[ March 07, 2002: Message edited by: zorweb ]</p>

This seems crazy to me. <p>mean begats mean begats mean<p>Why not transmute the karma and turn this into the 50 reasons why Zorweb is great thread. I mean it was created in your honor anyway. You can't control what this person says, but you can decide what happens from here.<p>I am taking it upon myself to try and shed soem positive energy around this place. I'm SOOOOO tired of the fighting.<p>So, 50 reason's why Zorweb is great.<p>#1- She really know's how to MB!<p>who's next?

#2 - zorweb is a perfect example of treating other MB'ers with tough love. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] thanks [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>
P.S. Maybe the lisa65 means that's how many MM she's preyed on. [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/cool.gif" border="0[/img]

3#: Zorweb is a neat name! though I dunno what it means [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]

thanks Scarlett [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] great idea<p>But let's take it a step further.. what's great about each and every one of us...<p>BTDT.... because she can be counted on with her great insight when someone is really in trouble.<p>MelodyLane... because she can allways be counted on to tell it like it is and give people the swift kick in the rump they really need<p>Scarlett... because she has been growing into a better person over the last year.<p>Got to get to work, realy realy do so I'll be back later to see what all have written and
add more of my own.<p>in response to HangingIn... zoweb doesn't mean anything. It's just my name. When I was signing in I needed an name, my son's game cd's were right there so I picked them up and put a couple of syllables together from their jackets. And hence zorweb was created.. from the ashes of d-day. Lol The name reminds me of some sort of action hero Amazon woman. I get a big kick out of the image. Yes I need to get to work. I’m loosing it here….lol<p>You are all wonderful

See, now doesn't that feel much better! [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]

Is the warm spring like weather bringing these people out of there dormant state they have been in?
[img]images/icons/cool.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]

#4 Zorweb is a compassionate empathetic person. Giving to others even in the face of adversity.

Katie,
Great idea. Here goes my 2 cents....watch out!!<p>1.Z, is my friend. <p> Of which this Eye (I) person has no clue what she is talking about by her futile attempts to slander such. If Eye is 22, she needs to go back home and learn how to be more respectful. <p>Eye, you got a lot to learn there 'girlie'. If you are 22, I am old enough to be your mom and if my kid talked like you just did, you would need to have your mouth washed out with soap. Does your mom know you act like this? SHAME.<p>Happiness is not elusive nor exclusive. Eye, you are quite young, it might take you a while to find happiness. No one wishes hardships on themselves unless they are a bit off. Yet we deal with what comes our way and make the best of it. That is what maturity will do when you grow up!<p>2. Z has already earned her respect. <p>Eye,we are not so naive to fall for the charges of an unknown character like yourself. What do you have to show so that we can have 1/2 the respect for you?<p>3. Z has learned a lot and shared her thoughts. It has been helpful to many of us. A wise man learns from his mistakes a wiser one learns from the mistakes of others. <p>Eye, are you wise, wiser or just want to stay in the dumb mode? <p>I can go on but I hope you are able to see that you just can't go through life acting immature and expect others to just let you slide by. <p>....another of life's lessons coming you way.<p>L.

Why is it that someone like LisaOW gets dozens of replies for her marriage destroying comments and someonne like myself who is genuinely wants help to rebuild their marriage gets ignored. I have come to this site desparate for help in a very difficult and lonely situation and find people far more interested in responding to a deliberately rude and destructive poster. Perhaps I should start being contreversial and then I'd get some help |!!!!Jante

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by jante:
<strong>...someonne like myself who is genuinely wants help to rebuild their marriage gets ignored. I have come to this site desparate for help in a very difficult and lonely situation and find people far more interested in responding to a deliberately rude and destructive poster. Perhaps I should start being contreversial and then I'd get some help |!!!!Jante</strong><hr></blockquote><p>What in the world are you talking about? I hope you don't really believe your solution to become a controversial OW who bashes MBers is the way you will choose to go?