I haven't posted since WW moved out. It's been about 1 month now. Nothing much has changed.<p>We split the time with the kids and still attend some things together as a "family". I do not know how much more I can take? I want her back so bad.<p>When she sees me, she only talks about what we need to about the kids (S-9, d-7, d-4), otherwise she doesn't talk to me. I try to talk to her. I tried calling her about a week ago to talk and she told me "I caught her off guard". Off-guard about wanting to talk to her?<p>I told her I was worried about her. She looks tired and like she is not getting enough sleep. I do not know the status of she and the OM. All I know is that she has a few more months left on her lease and all she says is that it is too soon to know anything - it has only been a month.<p>Well, it has been more than a month. <p>3/01 - told me she was not happy - loves me, but not in-love with me
3/01 - 7/01 - Plan A'd and changed my ways to no end
7/01 - D-day and forgave her immediately
2/02 - WW moved out saying she wants time and space - watching her move out and telling the kids was worse than d-day.<p>I don't know what else to do. I give her cards, letters and flowers. But nothing changes. I know I cannot control her feelings but this is pure torture. How can she continue to do this to me?<p>The only solace I have is that she has not taken it any further, giving me that little sliver of hope.<p>Any advice would be welcome. We do go for counseling, but she is quiet during those sessions too. The MC tries to get her to open up.<p>How do I get her back from the mother ship?<p>DD<p>Together 20 years
Married 12 years
3 kids (s-9, d-7, d-4)
