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I've been recapping an old post in which you've contributed responding posts which are very articulate. I can truly relate to your down-to-Earth advise. And, I'd love to hear more from you. Please come back!!!
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Oh, I am still around--I lurk. I still glean some great advise here. Once in a while, I add my $.02--and if I had more time, I would do so more often. My marriage came thru intact after we went through absolute hell and back, so I guess that I am proof that there is hope for marriage as long as the is love and patience, and a realistic game plan.<p>The ball is in my court now. Sometimes, if I am having a bad day and get to thinking to much, or if my husband isn't paying too much attention to me, then I get really upset and start picking on him. Then I relive the whole thing over again. It's awful. But all in all, it's possible to have a whole marriage after an affair, an even better marriage, I am finding, believe it or not. You just have to make forgiveness an art form.
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Nice to see you around.<p>Glad things are working out.<p>Elizabeth
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Bernzini,
I am so happy things are going well for you. Keep it up [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]
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I just wanted to thank you guys for the vote of confidence--I appreciate that a lot. It's nice to know that someone cares. After all, when I first got back together with my husband, which meant that I had to come back to Japan and this VERY small military community, people were saying "Why are you back with the jerk? Didn't you learn your lesson? Move on and be happy!" I really didn't get much support--fixing my marriage seemed to be an impossible task, like climbing a mountain with no legs. <p>So I am very greatful for the support that I have received here from you all. It means the world to me.<p>I just had to come back here and thank you all. I couldn't do that for a while because the keyboard on the laptop was busted. Don't think I ignored you!!<p>Thanx again<p>PS--We are moving to Korea in June. When we get there I would like to have a "Remarriage Ceremony." A real wedding, too (I didn't get a "real" wedding the first time) I sure would like to post the pictures to share with you. I am estatic, like a new bride.
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