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My husband had to travel on business yesterday to the location where the OW works. When he came home he seemed O.K.......I had a late meeting that pushed everything we normally do in the evenings back...supper, getting the homework finished, baths, kids to bed...so by the time is was just the two of us he tells me he is very tired and wants to go to sleep. He has not called me today from work, I guess I am feeling a little uneasy and a tad suspicious. Just a vent...
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The best I can say is to relax and try not to read into anything. It could be that since he not at his office yesterday he has some catching up to do and is very busy. Maybe when you get some alone time you could let him know that you have something on your mind and would like to talk about it, but if he isn't in the mood to let you know. This way you guys can talk about it when he is ready, but he also knows that you need to talk about it. My husband and I have become pretty good at communicating, and I've gotten real good at being able to talk to him when things are bothering him. Sounds like you just need a little reassurance, and there is nothing wrong with that. In any event, enjoy your day, and enjoy your family tonight. I wish you well. Take care.
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Its ok to be suspicious or concerned, but realize like Tutter says, it may be nothing.<p>My H works with the FOW, it isn't the optimal way to recover or heal, but he seems able to manage the contact, and then, so can I.<p>You can ask if he saw her or called her. Just prepare yourself to thank him for his honesty if he says yes [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img] and try to continue the dialog as calmly as you can. If he says no, his behavior and your gut will probably let you know if that's the truth over the next couple days.
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