Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
Terrier it is then!

Excellent, you get an extra biscuit tonight.

Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
Been to see solicitors.

1. He can’t kick me out of house. He would have to prove I am an unfit mother and get a court order to do that.

Makes sense, can you remain till the youngest is 18 if you wish to?

Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
2. If BF decided he wanted joint custody that it would be very unlikely that he would get it. As I have been the primary carer it would be in the interests of the children to remain with me most of the time.

Good

Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
3. If the house was sold I would get a 50/50 split as I am a joint owner. This is regardless of how much has been spent since we have been in the house.

If you do not feel he is making progress in meeting your terms, you may prefer to go that route.

Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
Feeling a lot better about things gives me a peace of mind about children and home.

Of course you do. Did solicitor say anything about what you might do if he tried to move back in?


3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)