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Not many believe this, but it was confirmed with the OW.

8 years ago, we had a babysitter. I was not the husband I wanted to be and I thought I was ruining my wife's life. I questioned staying with her. I never had nor made friends and at the tie I needed someone to talk to about whether to stay married or not. I stupidly chose the baby sitter. There was No emotional connection.

My wife liked to party and drink all the time. I hated it and Never drank, ever. I did not understand the buzz about drinking so one night I decided to drink to get drunk while my wife was away with family. During my stupor, and unable to hold my liquor, the babysitter came down from the upstairs apartment (she lived with her aunt, our friend). She was hitting on me, and I said no, you have to go. But since I do not remember anything beyond this point - this is what the OW told me:

I left the living room and went to my room and passed out. The OW came in the room and tried to wake me, she could not. At this point, she got my pants off and had her way with me while I was passed out. - reminder I never drank before and had downed a 12 pack in about 20 minutes.

When I came to (very hazy to remember), I thought I had urinated in my sleep - did not understand then, after OW story it made sense.

My wife suspected I was cheating, but I never had a plan nor did I want to. A few weeks later, OW said she was raped at a party and was pregnant. My wife and I both argued over it, nether of us knew anything more than the other. I assured her the child could not be mine, and she never heard the story from the OW, so never really believed me.

Several years later, OW calls up and claims she needed help with medical for the child and named me as the father. I was still unaware of the story. And here came the blood test. I had no contact with the OW, and ended up paying support.

After our first separation, I finally contacted the OW, and she then told me what happened, but by this point there was no legal recourse, and my wife wanted nothing to do with it.

I don't believe anything less than a transformation of the way you have been living would save your marriage - or make it worth it for your wife to remain married to you. No more drinking, no more lying or privacy, no more independent behavior (never do anything without an enthusiastic agreement between you and your wife), no more neglecting the children (put at least 15 hours a week on your schedule for spending quality time with your children, and your wife if possible), no more neglecting your wife (put at least 15 hours a week on your schedule for meeting your wife's intimate emotional needs), and absolutely no more angry outbursts, ever, or even being disrespectful or demanding.

That is a tall order, but it is what any man needs to do if he wants his wife to be in love with him.

The term "independent behavior" doesn't mean doing something by yourself - it means behaving as if your spouse doesn't exist. i.e., doing anything that they are not enthusiastic about. If you had followed this rule in the past it would be much more likely that your wife would not now be wanting to leave you.

Do you have the list of OM family and friends?
I do, I only question who to send to. I know many people have FB friends that are just added for the sake of adding.

Did you prepare your exposure letter?
I did, and it is ready to go.

Did you copy the letter from this website?
It is not verbatim, but mostly copy pasted.

What do you think about the polygraph, is this something you will do?

I wouldn't have a clue how to go about it, but I would not object