Well, you all are right. I can't "make" him come home, and he certainly doesn't feel the need to. He stayed out again last night, even though I asked him to please come home. We have MC with the Harleys next week. I just wish he saw how destructive his behavior is! He says he wants us to be amicable, but then does this sort of thing ... makes it difficult to be nice, but I still am.

Happily Recovered from Double Infidelity! \:\)
DD1[about to turn 7]
DD2[due at X-mas]