I have always gone to these events, until about 6 mos ago. There have been a couple of pretty major events I've missed and we didn't spend our anniversary together. So, missing this too would be a big deal to me ... especially since we're trying to revive this M. Or I could try to see it as just another event missed due to the consequences of my A. (I guess his A has no consequences since it was retaliatory?)

Our next session isn't until after the event, and I didn't think it wasn't particularly appropriate to bring it up in our 1st session. But basically, for me, not being invited would be a HUGE setback in our recovery. It is my belief and opinion that if we are going to pull through this together, we should be doing things like this together. Am I off-base?