He's really good so far (the MC) ... but that comment pretty much pissed me off. I didn't cheat on my husband over Mars vs. Venus stuff - I didn't keep boundaries up when I was vulnerable due to a lack of affection and attention at home. I know it isn't "average" to feel like your H doesn't even love you ...

Our next session is a couple of weeks off - which is fine by me. We've been getting along really well, working on the M, communicating more and better, and the "I love you" is back in our M. So, we have about a week and a half and then we're on vacation! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

H wants to replace his wedding band with a new one ... but wants to wait until it really means something. He jokingly suggested while we were on vacation, but I think it might be a good idea to wait until he's really ready. We'll see!

Things are certainly much better, that's about all I could hope for!