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Your wife is in pain, just as you are. Is there any way you can comfort her? Can you go lie with her and hold her or just ask her if there is anything you can do that will help her?
No, she won't let me. She says she's quitting tomorrow and will continue MC. But she started making damands. I have to change my personality. She wants a enhancement before we ever have SF again (I made the mistake of telling we would with the Tax Money) Now she holding me to that. And that we move.
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I know this is hard. I know you are in an enormous amount of pain, but please reach out to her.
I really am trying.
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If she gets nasty with you, tell her you can help her through her pain if she will let you. Tell her there is nothing she can say or do that will hurt any worse than losing her love. Tell her you cherish her. Cry with her!
DON'T MISS THIS OPPORTUNITY!!!!!!
She says she is still not "in it". She said she's taking control of her life now. We argued about that for a while too.
Thanks R, your always a big help. Even under my former name. She read my journal and saw the part about MB. I think some of the stuff she read helped a bit for her. But I love the "change your personality" part. I need to be a fun type of person. I guess OM was a pretty fun guy.
She has to get out of the store she's in with him.
BS (me) : 43yo WW: 41 yo married 17+ yrs D-Day #1 ONS Aug 03 D-Day #2 Dec 5, 2007 Four kids: 14 yo Son, 11 yo Son, 7 yo Daughter, 5 yo son First Day on MBSecond Thread on MB
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