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She wants a enhancement before we ever have SF again


are you deformed in some way?

If the answer is "no"

I'd recommend divorce .... how would such a woman be a loving caring adoring wife when you are both old and sick ?

Life gets more difficult as we get older and our physical bodies age - we need greater integrity as we get older, not less

(if this is actually what she said .... and I have my doubts)

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