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I am simply too comfortable and get too much of a payoff from choosing to be miserable for talk therapy or drugs to have any impact.
Even if it means your kids will grow up just like you? Or worse, just like your wife? Since they don't have a single decent role model in their house to learn to live like?

I repeat. Quit being selfish. Quit enjoying your martyrdom. Quit ruining your kids' lives.