I am sure Mrs. Hold would change her behavior if she knew how I felt. She would run so far and so fast I would never catch up to her.

I am surprised and disappointed that you have such little faith in your ability to get your point across in such a way that wouldn't alienate her. Given your vocation and all the time you've spent here, you've surely learned enough skills to do this effectively? What makes you so sure of your proposed outcome? When did you acquire the ability to read her mind?

Hold...let me ask this too...If you could erase the past and all the hard feelings - and if you were a stranger to your wife and you just met, would you consider yourself worthy to be her husband? Would YOU want to be married to you?

Last edited by Soolee; 11/26/09 11:31 PM.

Sooly

"Stop yappin and make it happen."
"The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you."

Me 47
DH 46
Together for 28 years.
Married 21 years.