Originally Posted by Marshmallow
Originally Posted by Gerkaguards
Think I should "spare her" the fact that everyone I came here with is leaving in a couple days, but I decided to stay?

No, I don't think you need to mention this. Right now your W is detached from you. Everything you do or say to her will be twisted in her mind...and held against you.

I would tell her about this after you are in recovery.

This isn't being open and honest. But again, it's not always the best idea to be open and honest with a WW. That part comes in recovery. This is just another example of what I was trying to say. You fight the battle to win.


BS - 32 (me)
FWW - 33
Married 8/31/03
No kids (but 3 cats)
D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA)
NC agreed to - 11/8/06
NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07
Status - In Recovery
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