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Drop the relationship emails.


Ditto!

Gerka - Get an e-mail off to your MIL this evening... letting them know that you just found out about your FIL's terminal lung cancer and ask them what you can do to help them...

This will do a couple of things:

1- You will be showing love and compassion for your in-laws AND your wife.

2 - IF your wife is making this up to manipulate you, then I'll bet that you MIL will quickly set you straight on whether or not your FIL has terminal cancer...

Focus on "being there" for your W and in-laws...


Semper Fi,

RIF