Originally Posted by Gerkaguards
It could very well be that they're just talking again. They've maintained a friendly relationship throughout the time I've been with my wife. I don't want to come at him like "stay away from my wife" and look like the nut my wife is trying to paint me as.

That's the problem. Your WW has high school "friend" relationships with multiple men even though she is married. Do you honestly think this guy is even remotely interested in just "friendship" or is he trying to become your WW's "rebound bang"? Either way, he talking to this OM is harmful to your marriage because he is meeting ENs you should be meeting. I agree you are in a no-win situation with this potential OM. You have no way to get any proof of an inappropriate relationship (even though I would say any relationship is inappropriate).

Jim

BS - 32 (me)
FWW - 33
Married 8/31/03
No kids (but 3 cats)
D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA)
NC agreed to - 11/8/06
NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07
Status - In Recovery
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