Good Morning Gerka!

You know I thought the same thing as RIF, that reply email sounded pretty 'normal' from WW.
I agree too, bump up your Plan A.


Originally Posted by Gerkaguards
I don't know if it's just me looking for problems, but her email left me exasperated. Lying to the phone company to avoid paying the bill? It's like she thinks it's ok to lie to avoid consequences, all the time. Like that's just who she is now. I know it's a small thing, but it really bothers me. I don't even know what to write back.
This is spoken like a true BS. This is part of what makes R so hard.
It's these shots of dishonesty that make us twinge. While they may have been there before and seemingly minor, now that we have been betrayed,
these bouts shout to us that our WS has not changed.

Expect more of these feelings.
It takes time for a WS to come back to the person that you once knew.

It also takes time to R a M after adultery. There are so many phases and emotional setbacks.
Baby steps and a lot of hard work.

BUT, it is possible. smile



oh, and the milk diet ........ rotflmao

It didn't even occur to me that you were trying to GAIN weight! faint

I only wish. sigh

You head home real soon now I think ....... safe trip home!

M'd 22 years
BW-me
D-Day 08/08 LTA