[quote=holdingontoit]I asked Mrs. Hold if we could have sex this morning.

Hold it was interesting for me reading your post, because I can't remember ever asking a woman for sex. It's true. LOL

I don't know if it was because I grew up in a cupboard or that a flat NO reply would seem to leave me nowhere to go.

I can see the direct question approach could be successful if played right.

I guess we all play to our strengths.