Originally Posted by CWMI
RMJ, he doesn't care if I bring him anything or not. I want to take care of him, because I love him and I promised to take care of him. It's what I do...someone I love goes down, and I start lifting.
Maybe he doesn't realize the "caring" that is a natural part of love. Healthy people care for one another when someone is down.

I thought about taking off, and then thought that the only reason I would do that would be vindictive. And I don't want to be anywhere else anyway. Why would I abandon my kids with an incapacitated parent??? Then I really get angry...

Hmmm, digging a bit deeper. When you were sick, did he just "leave you alone" to care for yourself? Or did he also leave the kids with you while you were incapacitated? btw, I don't think you should leave the kids, I'm just trying to gauge the situation

I wouldn't lift a finger to prove to anyone that I'm a B. Do people really do that? Help people so they can throw it in their face? I don't get that kind of thinking. I'm way too lazy to expend energy doing something that I could convey with a flip of a finger.
yep, those 'martyr' types do things and throw it in peoples faces. it isn't done outta love. yuck!

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