I don't think anything is your fault. I really don't.

Do I think it's possible that you and your husband create a dynamic between the two of you that isn't as good as it could be? Yes. But I don't think either of you are "at fault"

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Me 42
H 46
Married 12 years
Two children D9 and D4 !