Originally Posted by CWMI
Sure. I disagree that the failure of progression in my marriage is because I am hurt by what he says to other people, or that I am bothered that he neglected to secure our anniversary weekend,

CWMI, I said nothing of the sort. You have a right to be bothered.

He also has a right to be bothered by the way you are talking about him.

I can choose the way I respond when I am bothered. I can communicate about it in a respectful way, and I can communicate about it in a disrespectful way.

There's one more thing here you could do to make your marriage better, and you're choosing not to do it. So why are you placing 100% of the blame on him when there are things you BOTH aren't doing?

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If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.