I don't understand your question. You mean like your wife has a need and as a guy think sex trumps the other needs taht your wife might have?

It took a bit before my wife recognized that SF is really a legitimate need. It was us reading the MB books together as our UA time for her to realize, "Hey! He's not just a walking hormone."

My wife's highest ENs are DS and FC. She glows when I meet these.

Last edited by kilted_thrower; 05/27/11 08:35 AM.

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