Hill, you remember the beginning of Love Busters, right? The wife acted inappropriately, with love busters, because she wasn't being honest about what she could handle on a daily basis. Maybe y'all can brainstorm what you want status quo to look like.

Is there a reason like colic why the baby needs to be held all the time? My older daughter loved to sit and hold the baby, more than the baby wanted, LOL. Maybe one of your kids enjoys this? Maybe you have a swing or a walker the baby likes to sit in?

This stage is *so* short, you remember with the other ones. The idea is to make all your interactions positive ones that grow your love for each other. What's going well? Does baby sleep through the night?

Me 40, OD 18 and YD 13
Married 15 years, Divorced 10/2010