Originally Posted by SusieQ
Originally Posted by Hilltopper1972
She said she feels like we are just together for the kids.

This has got me concerned, HT. This attitude is different than when she was posting here. Has anything else changed recently? Do you think she is holding a grudge about you not getting the V?

And...

What happened to Dr Harley's advice of getting UA time together outside of the house? Is she willing to do this? When was your last date night?

Grudge? Big time. She said she is over it and is ready to deal with the birth control issue, but nothing has happened. I think if I can get her into the workbook that we'll find time spending time together. This is the most important thing we can do. She said she loves me if that helps.

Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD