Originally Posted by wiscomike
I drove her to this because I obviously didn't listen or hear that she needed something more than what I was giving.

Just know that you could have been meeting her needs 100% and she would have still had an affair if she had poor boundaries around men. Spouses have affairs for 2 reasons, a) they have poor boundaries around the opposite sex and/or b) they are looking for action. About 95% of affairs are due to the former. Those that occur due to the latter are hopeless cases. Which category does she fall into?

When women feel they are not heard, they don't run out and have affairs. Wild horses would not persuade a woman to do so against her will. Are you saying she feels entitled to have affairs when she doesn't feel "heard?

Did you read my other posts? Can you respond?

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