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Re: Ok, ok, ok... I'll try a Plan B
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Yes. True. I won't highjack this thread with lurid details though. I will promise to start a thread tomorrow evening though to address this issue.

Kam. Truer words have never been spoken.

Dylan, I love you too. (should I have said that, or did I just blow my Plan B?)

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Re: Ok, ok, ok... I'll try a Plan B
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So anyway, the above is a good example of why I'm in Plan B.

First the attack. Result: I'm angry, hopeless, very much in a 'this is the end' kind of place...

Then the "I love you" Result: oh, oh, spark of hope... wonder what will come of this...

Then...

...

...nothing. Result: Back to hopeless.

In an email, she told me to, "tell my boy I am coming home to him as soon as I
can..."

Alright. I did not tell him. I wanted to, and don't want to disrespect her request, but what do I say when nothing then happens? Is it fair to invite my son along for my merry little roller coaster ride? I want to ask her what she means by that, but I'm in Plan B.

I suppose that's for the best, because it fits right in with the above formula.

I hate this. Please advise.

dewt
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