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I have coordinated gifts with her a little bit. Probably shouldn't have done that.
Our plan for christmas is that she will get DD for christmas eve and morning and I'll come get DD at about 9 am and we'll go spend the rest of the day (and maybe week) away with family.
WW offered that I could come and open presents with them, but I refused.
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It worked last time; stick with it. A couple of ideas:
1. Telephone Y's where he might have gotten a job, and ask for him by name
2. Hire a P.I. to follow him for a day to find out where he goes to work
3. What would a tracking device cost, to attach to his car?
My girlfriend who is getting divorced hired a P.I. who put a tracking device on her STBX's car for a couple of days. Cost her, but she got valuable info.
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WW was angry a few days ago because our insurance didn't cover something when she went to the pharmacy. She was saying "did you take me off of the insurance!?"
I replied that I hadn't and that I couldn't even if I wanted to, at this point.
Well, today I followed up to see what the problem with the insurance was... What she couldn't fill was her prescription birth control! She wants me to help her with that?!?
Sorry, but she can fix that one herself!
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How are YOU doing, Gramn? And DD?
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I'm hanging in there. Depressed and lonely and bored. Same old $#!t.
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Any news? You maintaining NC? How about the legal front?
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Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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I meet w my lawyer later today. The NC is still very difficult...
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Gramn, what can you do that would get your mind off your WW and make life a little bit enjoyable?
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Gramm,
""What she couldn't fill was her prescription birth control!""
Too, too much, my friend!!
What reality sitcom are we in?
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Hey Gramm,
Just wondering how you are doing with the holidays coming up. Long time no post. Everything okay?
Me/BS 48
Married 16 yrs/together 23; 1 child
Dday 4/05; WH "needed space" and left 5/05
WH Filed D papers 6/05 - Divorce final 12/05
WH moved in with OW 11/05; moved out OW 1/06
12/06 His 3rd and strongest attempt at reconcilliation (I believe OW still in picture)
2/07 Affair over, begging me to take him back - it's too late.
WH has tried numerous times to reconcile.
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Hey Gramn,
I am still including you in my prayers. I hope you and your daughter have a wonderfull Christmas and Happy New Year.
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FWW ~ 47 ~ MeFBH ~ 50 ~ MrWonderingDD ~ 17 Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered
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Merry Christmas Gramm. Hope you and your daughter are enjoying the holiday.
Me/BS 48
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Dday 4/05; WH "needed space" and left 5/05
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12/06 His 3rd and strongest attempt at reconcilliation (I believe OW still in picture)
2/07 Affair over, begging me to take him back - it's too late.
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Hi People. Happy holidays to you all and thanks for all of the support.
I haven't been checking in here as much, as visiting this site just sort of makes me depressed.
Spending christmas eve alone was hard. WW wanted me to show up at her Apartment on christmas morning to open presents with her and DD. I thought that was a strange idea. I got to spend most of christmas day w DD and my family though, so it ended up pretty well.
Yesterday was our divorce pretrial. At this point, I mostly just want to get this over with. Unfortunatley, the pretrial did not resolve many problems. Next we'll need to get the court appointed "Guardian Ad Litem" to come and help determine custody stuff between WW and I.
This is all very draining and depressing. Not to mention financially taxing...
D-Day 6-13-05
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Gramn....it is natural to be depressed...and perhaps a year from now you'll look at all of this differently...it has been over 3 years for me....seems longer...
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(((Gramn)))
Good to hear from you, I am glad you and DD had a nice Christmas. Wishing you the best in the new year.
Me-41 BS (FWS) DH-41 WS (FBS) 2DD's- 10 and 12 Married 15 years Separated for 2 years after my A Reconciled for 1 year before his A D-day for his A 8/23/05 WH moved out 9/16/05 Divorce final 1/23/07 Affair ended or month or so later My Story
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Hi Gramn
Haven't seen you post for quite sometime and just wondering how you are?
Me BGF 40
WBF 36
DD 4 yr now
DDay April 05
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XWBF & OW broke up Oct 06
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Awww shucks, I thought Gramm was back, (sorry NZ). Yeah, Gramm, whasup??? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> k
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I'm still around. SOrry for the lack of posting.
Coming here just makes me depressed. GENERALLY I'm not that depressed right now.
Not much has changed. WW is still with YGuy
The Court appointed guardian is wroking on making a judgment about our custody thing.
I just had to put my house on the market
Ive been trying to concentrate on other things. Work, hobbies, going out w friends, etc.
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{{Gramn}} How is your DD?
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