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yes... I need to contact someone here on base for it... I really need that someone to talk to... I really don't have any "trusted" friends...
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good!!! you are already on your way.
now talk to your H about this and then contact whoever you need to contact there on the base and get started!! be sure to talk to several counsolers before deciding on who you want to work with. you have to feel comfortable with the person or you won't get anywhere. it took me a few attempts before i found one that was worth the $$!!
check back in here and let us know how you are doing. ok?
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The oney is nothing... Its free... trained therepist... I will make sure to check back in
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good morning confusedafmom (at least it is morning time for me right now).
i just wanted to say hi and to let you know you are in my prayers. i look forward to hearing from you.
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bumping up <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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bumping back up. still praying for you.
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2 bumps a day keeps the topic on top...
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bump, hope to hear from you.
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still praying for you. i hope things are going well.
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Sounds like slight postpartem depression and a normal hormonal change in your body.After all your only 7 weeks post partem...6 weeks is recomended before you start having intercourse again. Maybe you went back to it to soon. Also You only have 19 more pounds to go after 7 weeks from having a baby? Girl your doing better than most women in a short period of time! Way to Go!
Factor in the lack of sleep from having a new baby and a toddler...these are normal reactions to being a mom. Is you lifestyle back to normal during the day? upbeat..happy? It takes 9 months of hormonal changes when you pregnant...when you have the baby it can take just as long to get back to normal. Are you still taking vitamins?
My suggestion is to give yourself another month to feel better...go back to maybe just intimate cuddle time with no intercourse for a week or two and see how you feel.
If you don't feel better in a month seek some couseling.
Best of luck
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