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What if i just can't let go....and refuse. I mean i will not sit by and let him suffer. The one and only way i could even think of walking away is if I know for sure he is really okay there...and i am far from convinced of that. Our children deserve a dad in thier life..and if my standing firmly in this relationship accomplishes that..then so be it. Because i honestly feel that if i go, he will commit suicide.
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Then call 911 and be there when you let him go. He says he will commit suicide. Probably not!
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Ashley,
Does it not strike you at least a little odd that he does not leave his wife??!!! He sais he will commit suicide if he cannot be with you, so why not leave his wife so he can be with you?
What is she holding a gun to his head? He doesn't want to hurt her? Read here and you will find the betrail is the worse pain. He cannot hurt her more!
He is in the fog. He is fence sitting.
Ashley, he is with two women! He cannot decide! Is that the kind of man you want? A man that made a commitment to a women, married her, and now is having another one on the side. You should be admiring his wife for wanting to stay married to him and wanting to save her marriage, but more importantly wanting to save the relationship that they HAVE (not had, but HAVE!).
And, stop calling her! The woman is going through ******! She does not need you to TRY to REASON with her!
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Wow! picture this:
His wife wants him and you want him. He's loving this. It is stroking his ego to no end.
You are willing to fight for him. She is willing to fight for him. This is every man's dream.
He bangs her in the morning and you in the evening. What man wouldn't want that?
He has you to sit and make nice with and to be his soulmate. He has her to wash his clothes, cook his meals and take care of his children. And of course since you don't have to do all the caretaking, you have plenty of energy for sexual activities. This dream is getting better and better.
Come on, get real. Just like every WS tells the BS "you can't tell my OP's spouse- they kill the OP!" He's feeding you the same line of crap "If I can't have you I would rather die"
Is your real name Juliet? This is sounding like something from a movie.
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No actually, he does her in the evenings and me during the day!!!!!!!(sorry,i'm getting way too tired)
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You really need to leave this forum Ashley.These posts are truly revolting and you are not here to get any help from us only to spit out this vitriol of justification.What you don't understand is that hearing anything from other women(OW)other persons(OP) who are not seeking help to end the affair is HURTFUL to US. WE ARE A MARRIAGE BUILDING WEBSITE. We do NOT condone actions such that you are doing.If you want a sympathetic ear then go to the affore mentioned website www.gloryb.com to get your support of cheating and destructive behavior. O
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I agree with you Ocotbergirl... if I didn't know any better I would think Ashley was my wh's little ho. sorry to be so blunt but Ashley you have NO IDEA WHAT YOU ARE DOING TO HIS WIFE AND FAMILY. If you were calling and harrassing me I would call the police on you to make you stop it. You have no right to be with a married man period. You are treading where you do not belong. He is NOT YOURS TO HAVE. He made a commitment to someone else. If he is so unhappy in his marriage let him be man enough to step up to the plate and leave her then. Until that point and time you have no business being with him.
Let me let you in on a little secret... A MAN WILL SAY ANYTHING TO GET INTO YOUR PANTS! you bought his lines baby and you keep buying them. As long as he can have his cake and eat it too he is NOT going to leave his wife. My wh did the same thing for 3 years until I told him enough. Now he can live his reality and his reality is not so fun anymore.
Unless you truly want help you really don't belong here. mlhb
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Here, Here, Octobergirl & mlhb! I agree!
ASHLEY: how did you even happen upon this site? It's a MARRIAGE site.
Try Loveshack.org.
You're not welcome here!
The ones who can't stand Dr. Phil are the ones who are up to no good... ("oh, he doesn't know what he's talking about...blah, blah, blah")
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everyone should stop reading her thread and responding toher so she has no reason to stay here.
Also use the Ignore user option in case she posts to anyone.
this is a person we want NOTHING to do with!!
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No actually, he does her in the evenings and me during the day!!!!!!!(sorry,i'm getting way too tired) So you are the sloppy seconds? I hope you are getting well paid for your services. I mean, at least a prostitute gets paid for her services. Does he at least leave a $5 bill on the dresser before he goes back to his wife and family? Don't put out for free!!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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everyone should stop reading her thread and responding toher so she has no reason to stay here. Agreed.
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**snort** <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Coke or Pepsi ??? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
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Pepsi, of course. anna apple pie! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I'd rather have onion rings. Is that on the menu?
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I'd rather have onioni rings. Is that on the menu? That's the #3 special. Would ya like that supersized? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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nah, the small will be ok. I'm watching what I eat <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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what ever. I'll take the SUPER SIZE! What a troll, indeed! It makes me think of
"the grumpy old troll who lives under the bridge" in the Dora the Explorer shows. Heeeeee
The ones who can't stand Dr. Phil are the ones who are up to no good... ("oh, he doesn't know what he's talking about...blah, blah, blah")
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"I'm the grumpy old troll-
who lives under the bridge-
I'm the grumpy old troll-
who lives under the bridge"
you know...of course, if we weren't so busy taking care of OUR children, we would have ABSOLUTELY NO knowledge of "the grumpy old troll"...ahhhh, if only they realized...the OW must be in FAR THICKER FOG than most WS...ok, excuse me whilst I go VOMIT.
The ones who can't stand Dr. Phil are the ones who are up to no good... ("oh, he doesn't know what he's talking about...blah, blah, blah")
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