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Awesome Believer! I can't add anything to this!
You Rock!


BS (me) 40
WW 38
DD 10
DS 7
Got "I don't love you" letter 8/05.
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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Thunderous applause for a truly class act! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Way to go Believer! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />


WTF *** Warning *** Make sure brain is engaged before shifting mouth out of Neutral.
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Man oh man,
What an Ending! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />

Your turning what was meant for Evil into something redeeming is simply Awesome. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

However,
even though your selfless act is a Cool Twist ........what I am most Thankful for is that your H FINALLY decided to STOP the ultimate Cake eating and LET IT BE OVER for YOU! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

To now be able to truly turn the page is Priceless. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

Glad you took the Day OFF to enjoy a life breakthrough.
You Deserve IT! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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Believer,

May I share your story with some girlfriends and the Wookie?

I think it is simply awesome.

Kimmy


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

My Story

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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
BRAVO!!!!!
1st the house in Mexico from your cigarette money...now this!!
You are the most generous person I know of!

Good karma..no GREAT karma!

You are a class/cool act. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />


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DS-14 & DD-12
together 21 yrs, married 18.5yrs
"I love you but not IN love with you" speech 6/3/04
D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
Recovery finally began Jan 2007
We are IN love again!!!Sept 2007
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wow. You are incredible B!

And yes...DO THE DRIVEBY! Let the Waywards decline together...cause' it is what will happen.

You are so cool.

Thanks for showing unconditional love to somebody who probably really needs it.

And it's really funny...you and I used to be on similar divorce timeline/separation stuff. My xh immediately remarried after the divorce...and it is SAD...why? Because WE WILL BE THE ONLY ONES TRULY FREE after all was said and done. Not the WS. They jump from frying pan into a hotter fire...and we're free with no blood on our hands.

What a soul=lifting day! Love ya.

Incidentally, I have a harley trigger. My xh's ow numero uno, Monkeyho, is a harley enthusiast...well she uses her harley to lure men that is...like a darn spider weaving her web to trap men into sitting on the back of it and going for a ride....

CAN'T RESIST THIS:::>>THERE MUST OF BEEN TONS OF GUYS WHO'VE TAKEN A RIDE WITH MONKEYHO IN TN!


me:37 BS; s:7; xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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and NOT ON HER HARLEY...LMAO!


me:37 BS; s:7; xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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Believer I am so glad its over for you, well that part at least.

You deserve so much happiness I'd post you some of mine right now just because.

many hugs to you <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

AW

Aussie said 'Gid day sweet one'!

he's ACTUALLY home tonight <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> with Mikey on his knee playing a tickle game ...I'm not sure who's enjoying it more <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


Life may feel as if you are constantly getting kicked on a daily basis, living is about picking yourself up each day and going on and on and on regardless.

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Believer is a true beauty

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Believer - what irony. Fantastic stuff. Hope your sons don't get mad at you! TT

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Believer,

You are one awesome woman.....

God has blessed you many times over.

Your H has lost the best thing he ever had YOU !!!!!

You Rock !!!!!


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3 children 15,19,22
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B, what a noble act of giving. I always knew you had class but wow, that is incredible!

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Pep - That looks just like the OW!!!! And I'm not kidding.

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Wow Believer!


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Believer,

You are the best....if there is a karma list...you have surely added points in the plus column for this one.

OW's H is ahead with a reliable, true blue Harley as a mate and your xWH has lost all of his marbles to lose you. It's done now...ding...the bell has rung and you are now free to move about the country....and live your life. Hope someone fabulous in your future...until then you are fabulous on your own. Kudos, SS

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OMG Believer......

Sounds like you've truly arrived in calm, comfort & know how to enjoy it too.

Congrats, Best Wishes Kt X

PS I'm all for burning some rubber or simply revving the ... outta of it & enjoying the rush!

You rock!

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I can't get over what you've done. It just works, on so many levels. You are extraordinarily inventive, with a creative mind that nobody seems to have anticipated. And people think when we get older, we can't be surprising. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> HA! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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Believer...

Kimmy called you what she is, too...and everyone else...I'm honored to know you...

Think how long this choice will give you awesome feelings...how it ripples...I suspect, this is what you already know...but sharing it with us? Fantastic...I love living vicariously.

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

In my book, you are the decorated war hero...and I salute ya.

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Hi Believer,

I am soooooooooooo happy for you!

((((((((((((((((B)))))))))))))))))


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Believer-H read this post and wanted to know where he could see the pic. We just bought an 06' HD softtail. First, new thing we've purchased. We usually buy things a few years after their out so we don't take that depreciation hit. H dreamed about this for a while. It's a FXST and we added the engine guards, windshield, sissy bar, Reinhart exhaust, and Screaming Eagle stage one kit. How is OWxH liking the bike? Did he take your S's GF's mom on it? LOL

H wants me to say that he hasn't got a chance to play with it yet, still in breakin stage. He says it got it's first rainbath today. It's been raining since we got it.

ChaCha- thanks again for the post. I knew H would be interested in reading it.

Poijitos- H just went to the truck to figure out which bike you were talking about. H lives and breathes them right now, and it's his first time looking at this site.

I get to learn how to drive the Yamaha now! For you true HD fans, please don't talk bad about me. I get to ride it up and down the driveway until I'm "grown enough" (LOL) to take it to a parking lot. H has to lower the back shock all the way down so I wouldn't be on my tippy toes! LOL


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Thomas Carlyle
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