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Jo, how are ya?
It really is sad that there are such people who need their own fantasies met more than they need a real life.
I don't know about Just Jilly. Don't have much time to come here any more. Got a job, keeps me busy.
How you? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

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>>> slips an ACE up her sleeve<<<

JustJilly? Hmmm...

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Hi Bell,

I'm terrific, thanks for asking. Life is very good.

How are you doing, hon?

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To anyone who believes that I am not really justjilly and am in some way involved with this you are all wrong. She was the first person to email me. Then she posted a portion of my email without my permission. She did this while I was gone. If there is a way that my identity can be verified then I would like that to be done because the help that I have received from MM and FH has helped me to turn my life over to God.

I am justjilly. God knows the truth about me. I have never posted under a different alias PERIOD. I may have a lot of issues but this is NOT one of them. I solemly swear to God and all of you that I am not in anyway affiliated with this mess. I didn't even know until I saw this thread that she had more than one alias. This is her deal. I hope she seeks some real help.

You will have to make your own mind up about this but I am mad <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />

that I am being accused of being an imposter.


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To anyone who believes that I am not really justjilly and am in some way involved with this you are all wrong. She was the first person to email me. Then she posted a portion of my email without my permission. She did this while I was gone. If there is a way that my identity can be verified then I would like that to be done because the help that I have received from MM and FH has helped me to turn my life over to God.

I am justjilly. God knows the truth about me. I have never posted under a different alias PERIOD. I may have a lot of issues but this is NOT one of them. I solemly swear to God and all of you that I am not in anyway affiliated with this mess. I didn't even know until I saw this thread that she had more than one alias. This is her deal. I hope she seeks some real help.

You will have to make your own mind up about this but I am mad <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />

that I am being accused of being an imposter.

Excuse me JustJilly, but please point out where someone (anyone) "ACCUSED" you of anything.

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So...what's the chance that justjilly is this "jj" ...and jilly does rhyme with silly...dontcha know...


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If JustJilly is another aberation of BlessedTIME/Sarie/IWRA/SillySillyGirl/Celt etc., and MM and FH are spending all that time supporting her, how wrong and how frustrating is THAT!

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I'm still completely gobsmacked by this turn of events. All the personas I mean.

It is seriously unsettling.

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I'm still trying to absorb this all. I went back and saw where IWRA and Blessed TIME posted on the same thread..

HERE

Blessed Time said her son-in-law died. IWRA said her Mom died. Just a week or so ago, IWRA said her Mom had her 87th birthday! She must have come back to life! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

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I have company here and I can hardly take the time to post.

This post below by IWRA was a lie.
I will right any lies as they come out!
My mom is fine, what I wrote 2B about her birthday and the picture I sent, are true. My dad died though several years ago.

I was 'faking' it to give sympathy to Blessed Time.
Blessed time is a mixture of Sarie and Iwra and told
a LOT of lies distract from Sarie.
The post about my son in law dying suddenly and leaving
behind his girls and my daughter was true.

"Thank you for taking the time to start this thread, Julie.

I lost my Mom, my best friend, my life's greatest cheerleader, last July. (2004)

The song made me cry also. I hope it really is that way; that they are happy and walking streets of gold.

Thanks again, Laura "

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I'm still trying to absorb this all. I went back and saw where IWRA and Blessed TIME posted on the same thread..

HERE

Blessed Time said her son-in-law died. IWRA said her Mom died. Just a week or so ago, IWRA said her Mom had her 87th birthday! She must have come back to life! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

Unreal 2B...And you know what else is strange...In that thread IWRA signs her post as Laura...In IWRA's early posts she signs as Mary...The one time that she emailed us she was someone called Rachel...Who knows...I'm calling her Sybil from now on...This is BIZARRE!

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IWRA...how can we believe that the picture you sent me and cardsonly was really your Mother? She looked alive though.

And why the Laura, Mary, Julie??

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here i am paranoid about being bipolar, and we have a genuine schizo among us. Just no figuring that one, huh? Good grief, folks, let's decide to let this thread die or ask tempest to lock it for our own sanity. nuking futz.

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2B,

Did IRWA not fwd. my email to you without my permission and also to the Wonderings? Did I not ask you why she signed some Mary and some Rachel? Did I ask you to NOT to fwd any part of my email to her? The Wonderings was any email I wrote ever fwd. to you? It was not done with my permission nor was any part of any email I ever wrote ever to IRWA. I learned that she started a thread about me from HER. She never asked my permission to post it. I feel totally duped.

Resilient, I am sorry if I wasn't being accused of being her then I take it back. I just felt like comments were made that suggested maybe not accused that I was her.

I have emailed the moderator with my personal information (full name and location) and asked to see if they can verify that I am NOT her. I am very disturbed by this.


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Jilly,
Yes you asked me all of those things. I did not forward your email to her as you asked.

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Yes JustJilly, "Sybil" did forward us your email...She also "edited" a part that she said was extremely personal as opposed to just personal, I guess <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />...The edited part she said was regarding the death of your mom...

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justjilly,

This is an anonymous forum. You are NOT under ANY obligation to prove to ME or ANYONE exactly who you are! Having said that I want to assure all forum members that I have NO reason whatsoever to believe justjilly has ANYTHING to do with the poster in question or has any idenity other than justjilly.


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JJ, I hope you can see that after such wackiness being outed, that anyone with a strange or unusual story is going to make people wonder (not accuse, just wonder), if that is her? him? too.

I'm surprised nobody has questioned me. In fact, my feelings may even be hurt. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

So assuming you're you, <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />, just carry on. Even though some people were doubtless serious in their wondering, but unless people start posting lists of your similarities to the MB Sybil, I wouldn't worry about it.

So come on already! Who among you thinks I am another iteration of Sarie? My real last name contains an S, and my real first name contains an I and an E. WHAT MORE DO YOU NEED???

Oh, wait. I haven't attacked Melody Lane yet. Mel, ya loopy Texan!

There.

*Smiles serenely, folds hands, and waits for the onrush.*


A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb



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Mrs. Wondering,

I don't see how it was anymore personal then what I wrote about on this board myself. So not only did she fwd.my email to both the Wonderings and 2B, she took the liberty to edit out what she thought was "too" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />personal?

My last email contact with her was on August 3. I returned from my vacation on Aug.1st, read her emails Aug. 2nd. and replied on Aug. 3. I became confused when she signed as both Mary and Rachel and asked 2b about whether she was Mary or Rachel since she had signed both ways. Also she stated in email that she had started that thread regarding me because of (you) the Wonderings "harsh' treatment of me. I am confused even more now. If yours was the harshest treatment of me then why on earth would she fwd. my email to you of all people.

I became weirded out when I read a thread here where she was emailing with MakeEveryDayCount. MEDC has made his or her (sorry I don't know your gender) position about me so clear. I accepted how many felt about me and I just thought it was odd that she would be emailing support to me and then emailing MEDC. I wondered if she was fwd. my email to MEDC so I decided not to email her again as there were too many things I thought were out of order.


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Justuss,

Thank you so much. Neak thank you too and 2B and Mrs. Wondering. I will go back to my thread and work on my R with God.

With respect.


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I'm surprised nobody has questioned me.

Personally, I've had questions about you for years. 40, to be exact. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> Very suspicious story. And you probably didn't attack Melody Lane just to throw people off track. Devious, devious, devious. Let me be the first to expose you.

Wait, I WAS the first one to expose you, wasn't I? Centimeter by painful centimeter, too! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> Owie-kazowie! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

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