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Great news and congratulations. Can I ask you one favor? Please delete that stuff about how to get rid of piojitos. I'm afraid gemela might read your post and try that on me.

Good job!

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Oh, those children are lucky babies. You are a fabulous woman. If Wookie doesn't do right by you, let us know and all us MB women will come over, wearing our pointy-toed shoes, and kick him in the shins.

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kimmy----I JUST LUV YA!!!!!!!!!


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Thank EVERYONE who has ever posted to me. I could not have survived this without MB...and a good couple of plans... ;-)

For any newbies who happen upon this, NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF A GOOD PLAN!

Mr. Dubya...tried to 'splain your advice to the Wookie this morning and tripped on my own tongue. Will copy and paste your posts and print them out for him, if'n that's okie dokie with you...

All my love,
Kimmy


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Kimmy...

I haven't been around here to see this thread, I just finished reading it..."flare prayers", as you call them are going up for you and your family from ours...Lots O' Cyberhugs too! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

You and/or The Wookie are more than welcome to email Mr. W for input regarding the IRS stuff...I'm not sure if you know this or not, but Mr. W is a tax attorney...even went so far as to get an additional degree after law school, an LLM in tax law, sooooooo...This type situation is where DUBYA REALLY GOTS GAME-Brings his "A Game" Even!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Anyway, I know that he would be more than happy to advise y'all should you need/want him to...Just give us a shout...We'd be glad to hear from you anytime! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. Dubya


FWW ~ 47 ~ Me
FBH ~ 50 ~ MrWondering
DD ~ 17
Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered

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Kimmy, I do feel for her. Can't help myself! Imagine how daft she was to try and represent herself in such a hopeless situation. Crazy woman.

Your husband struck gold when he married you. And the children are blessed to have you as their primary carer. You must be so relieved it's over (ish!) TT

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I know TT. I felt bad when she was crying...she really is looney.


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Don't waste any time feeling bad. She reminds me very much of my niece's and nephews' biomom, who liked/likes the warm fuzzy feeling of little children saying "I love you Mommy", but doesn't actually care much about the day-to-day responsibilities of child care.

How wonderful that the judge found in your favor!

If (ha!) she keeps on being sleazy and troublesome, do you have any other options for p/u and d/o than Wookie by himself? You probably discussed this at length somewhere; sorry if I missed it.


A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
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The Wook doesn't go by himself, and p/u and d/o are at the parking lot of the main police station downtown!


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I thought it was really good that they changed the location to there.

I know he has took someone with him in the p/u you told about above, but will someone still be able to go the other times? He should not assume the police parking lot is safe enough not to take someone. I am not saying he is assuming that, but just that he must not ever underestimate her trouble-making abilities. Maybe he's not. I'm only concerned about you. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Don't know how you do it hon, but you're amazing!


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I usually always go.

And we usually go from his work - so he's in his policeman uni.

I'm not amazing. I'm exhausted.

We're going on a grown up only weekend trip this weekend. We've not been since my 6 year old was a kidlet.

We're due.

- Kimmy


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O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

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Amazingly exhausted is still amazing....

How wonderful - and I'm having a grownup weekend this weekend, too. Where are you going?

I'm going to Montana, technically for business, but anything where I ditch the kids still counts as pleasure.

It's good that you usually go, even though I don't know how you can stand it. Personally I don't think she is nice enough even for vinyl.


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but anything where I ditch the kids still counts as pleasure.

I should make it a quote poster and put it up in your living room. It would make for interesting conversaton.

My kids don't understand either. They will though, I'm sure they will in not too many years.

Have fun, both of you.

Personally I don't think she is nice enough even for vinyl.

One of the nicest DJ's I have ever heard. Real talent at work.

LOL.

SS


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We're going to the coast...on the boss's dime at that...its a company getaway!


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Oooooh, what fun! At all is great, company dime is better. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

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CONGRATS KIMMY!!!!

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CONGRATULATIONS!!!

It's been so long since I've stopped by here and it just makes my day to read this!

Have fun on your grown up only weekend!

Paula


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You Tell 'Em, We Spell 'Em! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

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Have a good time this weekend Kimmy!

No kids, away from home at a posh hotel, hubby in uniform...oh yum!

But please, try to control yourself! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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>But please, try to control yourself!




NOT!

You take that back!!!!!!!!! Luckily, we know the authorities down there (hehe).

I loves you Weav and FLT2H!

Neak - I just spent $150 on BEER for the cookout they're throwing Saturday night. D'ya think I got enough? (giggle)

FIM - I can't tell you how much it means to me that you dropped in on the thread! You are a lighthouse to me...and I've always felt fiercly protective of you! Dunno why...other than you are just such a good person who deserves great things in her life!

- Kimmy


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