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Just found out... hopeandpray #1891396 08/22/07 02:35 PM
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Re: Just found out... Scott55403 #1891397 08/23/07 11:05 AM
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coachswife Member C Joined: Aug 2005 Posts: 998	Oh gosh, I'm so sorry, Scott. Prayers said.

So here are the things running through my head... coachswife #1891398 08/26/07 07:37 AM
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A bit of an unusual night... Scott55403 #1891399 08/28/07 09:44 AM
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Re: A bit of an unusual night... Scott55403 #1891400 08/28/07 09:46 AM
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Re: A bit of an unusual night... Owl #1891401 08/28/07 12:51 PM
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Re: A bit of an unusual night... Scott55403 #1891402 08/28/07 01:22 PM
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Owl Member O Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 2,715	Good...that's some good plan A time for you, really. Last edited by Justuss; 11/13/07 09:58 PM.

Re: A bit of an unusual night... Owl #1891403 08/28/07 02:13 PM
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Here we go again... Scott55403 #1891404 08/29/07 11:22 AM
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So you had a bad day... Scott55403 #1891405 08/30/07 08:12 PM
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An update.... Scott55403 #1891406 09/05/07 09:57 AM
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Waiting for the other shoe to drop... Scott55403 #1891407 09/06/07 10:04 AM
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Re: Waiting for the other shoe to drop... Scott55403 #1891408 09/06/07 12:08 PM
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coachswife Member C Joined: Aug 2005 Posts: 998	I feel the same way about my grandmother!!!! She did get to see my kids born but my six year old talks about her all the time- saying how much she misses her. Why do you think your wife wrote off the marriage?? To me, I would think that she would have written it off due to resentment- which was the case in my affair/divorce. What would she be resentful of though if you were meeting all of her EN's? Quite frankly, you cannot be sure about that unless she's filled out the EN questionaire, correct?

Re: Waiting for the other shoe to drop... coachswife #1891409 09/07/07 10:04 AM
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Re: Waiting for the other shoe to drop... Scott55403 #1891410 09/07/07 01:37 PM
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coachswife Member C Joined: Aug 2005 Posts: 998	WOW, I guess so.

The ironies of life... DELETED coachswife #1891411 09/14/07 10:24 PM
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Re: The ironies of life... Scott55403 #1891412 09/14/07 10:52 PM
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believer Member B Joined: Sep 2003 Posts: 27,069 San Diego County	It does sound like you are doing all you can to hold the marriage together. What were some of the red flags you saw in her before you married her? How long did you know her? Last edited by Justuss; 11/13/07 10:05 PM.

Re: The ironies of life... DELETED believer #1891413 09/16/07 09:05 PM
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Re: The ironies of life... DELETED Scott55403 #1891414 09/18/07 10:13 AM
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Re: The ironies of life... Scott55403 #1891415 09/19/07 03:34 PM
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Tyk Member T Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 1,306	Man, I just read all this. I don't really think infidelity is the problem with your wife. I mean, I think whatever the problem is manifests itself in many ways, one of them being infidelity, but the problem goes much deeper than that. She's not having an affair you can really stop! What are you going to do? Call every man on myspace and yahoo? She doesn't appear to care much who it is she's having innapropriate contact with, and as soon as you stop one she's started 3 more. She seems to have a complete lack of respect for you, her son, and herself. I would suspect its some combination of psychiatric disorder and alcoholism fueling this behavior. I mean, I can understand most infidelity. I don't agree with it, but I can at least comprehend how someone either was provided an opportunity and seized it or developed intimate feelings for someone else. But your wife is out there seeking opportunities with strangers. That's not very typical. It just makes me think that infidelity is just the tip of this iceberg. Good luck man.

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