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Okay, this was foggy...admitted...let's move past it and on to this post.
Your statement about why vets are leaving the board is also foggy. You don't really know chit from shinola about this board yet. You are a new FWS here...it is most likely better to listen to the likes of Mrs W and others that have risen above what you are still in than to criticize.
One of the consequences of your affair is that may you forever lose the ability to pursue that career. That's what happens when you chit where you eat. If it was so valuable to you, you should have protected it better in the first place.
You owe the other man's wife the truth. You have victimized her and you are just as bad as her H. Give her the truth, be honorable...and rise above this stuff. Until you have given her honesty, you are not living an honorable life.
The attached post was rude on so many levels. I am shocked that a newcomer would be so abrasive to people that are taking their time to help you. I will tell you that I wish you well and hope you find guidance from the posters here. But I have my sincere doubts about your sincerity based on this post. We all can make mistakes by saying stupid things....you did and instead of owning that...you lash out at others in a fashion that makes me question if we are dealing with yet another impostor. If not, lighten up on those trying to help you.
ETA...thanks for owning that and apologizing to Mopey.
This had been sorted and discussed and then this gets posted, 1st post in this thread, just to sink the boot in again and keep flogging the dead horse!!!!!!.
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And re-posting that helps how exactly?
sheesh.
You know I bet MEDC clicked on REPLY after he read that one sole post. I've done the same myself a few time.
And you accuse HIM of flogging a dead horse?
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Thanks, MEDC. I hope you don't really think I am a troll, although I had to ask H what the heck that even meant when I first saw it here. Then after he explained and I read some more posts, I realized what you guys meant. I will try to lighten up, as you suggested. I had read a LOT about the 2x4s and the bad turn the board had taken and all that b4 I even posted, and almost didn't post b/c of it. So, I guess when things got tough on me, I just started swinging. I've always been a "take no sh**" kind of person, and I was "prepared for the battle" after reading all that stuff. Sorry for the disrespect. Man, I feel like one of those bad guys that gets booked and then is standing there naked and shaking and they shine the light on him and go "STATE YOUR NAME!!" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> (this is meant as a JOKE, not a poor me statement, I swear).
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OZ....I was replying before her apology.
did you see my eta? this was in response to her admission of fault.
your butting in is typical of why problems arise.
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Oh good grief, don't you guys start, NOW!
And mopey...thank you for accepting my apology.
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S_S...
You would do best to put Ozdreamer on ignore...A stir the pot poster will NOT help you at all...
S_S you just did GREAT by coming around on this thread...That is how you and your husband will recover your marriage...Your perspective will change in this way and that will help you to help your husband through this trauma...Do not get caught up with those who are only here to complain and not help...I hope very much that you will listen to me about this...
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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
you'll do just fine.
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S_S the fact you are sticking around and are learning says a lot about you. You will make friends and get help here I guarantee it.
Most of the trouble recently on the board has been about people trying to control other people who don't post to their taste. There have even been attacks on the moderators who don't moderate according to how some people think they should.
We are all guests here trying to help each other through a very difficult time. Emotions run high at times. Don't let that worry you.
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You know I bet MEDC clicked on REPLY after he read that one sole post. I've done the same myself a few time. If he replied with that after reading that ONE post, when there is another 20 or so posts to follow, what does that say? NOT much better is it?
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Thanks guys...all of you...seriously. But really, I don't know how anyone here can help me when I already know everything and am always right! Just ask my H! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> (oh, come on, I'm a true smarta$$...ya won't beat that outa me!)
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(oh, come on, I'm a true smarta$$...ya won't beat that outa me!) Smartass is good - we can work with that. [censored] is bad so do please put ozdreamer on ignore. Click on the name and then click on "ignore this poster"
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You know I bet MEDC clicked on REPLY after he read that one sole post. I've done the same myself a few time. If he replied with that after reading that ONE post, when there is another 20 or so posts to follow, what does that say? NOT much better is it? Ozdreamer, How you think your posts here are helping anything I do not know...I suspect your goal is NOT to help... This woman is being helped here...You are not needed...Move along... Mrs. W
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Seriously, how can you tell from a Jr. poster w/20 posts? Has he/she used this name b4, or...?
Maybe you guys should put up a post on how to spot a troll. I really wouldn't have a clue (at least not at this point).
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Seriously, how can you tell from a Jr. poster w/20 posts? Has he/she used this name b4, or...?
Maybe you guys should put up a post on how to spot a troll. I really wouldn't have a clue (at least not at this point). LMAO!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.
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Oz, first off...mind your friggin business.
Second, i was replying to two posts....the first which I said to move past, the second which had been posted about 1 hour prior to mine.
Perhaps if you took your head out of your asss you might have figured that out.
Go back to your spot under the rock so this poster can be helped. You truly aren't needed here.
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Call it beginners intuition.
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Seriously, how can you tell from a Jr. poster w/20 posts? Has he/she used this name b4, or...?
Maybe you guys should put up a post on how to spot a troll. I really wouldn't have a clue (at least not at this point). No really.....lol.....yur just playing right?....lol.... You do know that there have been several of those threads and they've all been locked just about. Oz would know. About 8 of her 12 post were about trolls and posting styles, and 8 of them were locked.
Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.
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MEDC...Armor Coated Soul Speaker...(not troll speaker) <tj> Hey MEDC I know where you got that soul speaker crap from but wouldn't you prefer to call yourself a "Truth Speaker"? Soul speaker sounds so mych like the juvenile soulmate crap. LOL. I hope you are well. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> </tj>
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But really, I don't know how anyone here can help me when I already know everything and am always right! Just ask my H! (oh, come on, I'm a true smarta$$...ya won't beat that outa me!) Oh brother, we'd better call for backup. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> And mopey...thank you for accepting my apology. I was happy to.
Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.
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No, really, just that clueless! Remember, I didn't even know what a "troll" was till H explained it. Sorry, never been on a board b4 and I am GREEN! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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