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Thank you SMB,

I know what you are saying and are completely right. And even though I believed it was just a nice gesture I can certainly see where it could get me into trouble because I just want it to be harmless, but it was nice.

I think that everyone has convinced me I need to not go near the fire. AT ALL..

For me, if for no one else, but my conscience, dignity and walk with G-d.



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Hope,

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Do you think WH actually remember after a few weeks/months what we wrote in our PBL's?They are so fogged out do they retain anything?
You silly girl.. You know there is NO WAY I am going to answer that one.

It doesn't matter what they are doing, thinking. They haven't met our demands so they don't deserve our attention. We wrote the letter. G-d knows we wrote the letter and we have to walk in FAITH and TRUST G-d.

There is no OTHER way.


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Queenie you are so right..they don't deserve our attention!!

I must constantly remind myself that WH 's are ADDICTS..

My problem is that I keep thinking logically and I know affairs are not LOGICAL!!

You are remarkablely strong Queenie....I'm learning from you although I am further along in my stitch!!14 months now.
Its nearly midnight here so I must get some sleep,work tomorrow!

You are in prayers


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and about that torah study?
I guess we'd need a place to do that so we don't end up with a huge, out of control, dominating the GQII forum, hard to keep on page one so we can find it sort of thread. Where would you suggest?

Start it and I will come... cool

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Hope,

I think I would word it a bit different. It's not that they don't deserve our attention, they do, WHEN they meet our demands. They haven't met our demands, so we don't get to think about them.

Plan B is preserving the love we have for them and if we are constantly thinking about them knowing they are out there doing their thing... It will drain us.

I'm not remarkable. Not one bit. I hope that I am just humbled enough and have checked my ego at the door enough to listen to the wisdom on here knowing that they have the knowledge and I am just the student.

My goal is to save my M. My best thinking got me here, I need to check my mind at the door and let others who have walked before me, lead me.

Because they were led by those as well.

Sleep well my friend...


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I am going to try and add a thread in the bible study forum. Wish me luck....

Thank you. smile


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And you expect me to follow you to the "Women's Bible Study" forum?" crazy

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LOL, Nope.

I'm so on top of this. I have emailed JustUss and asked him to create a new thread called Torah - a look through different eyes. I think that's what I asked for.




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Here I was just trying to decide if we should put it under "Other Topics" or some place like that. Considering that I am not a Torah scholar but merely a broken down old Sunday school teacher, I didn't think a new forum needed starting.

Besides that, then they will have to make available one to study The Book of Mormon, one for studying The Qur'an, the Sayings of Siddhartha Gautama, the Teachings of Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh and Quotations From Chairman Mao if anybody asks for one.

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I actually didn't see the other topics idea. I like that better.

And since I didn't think you would want to be with the women's bible study I was comprimising....

Let me check it out...

And I hardly imagine you as broken down old sunday school teacher...


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JUSTUSS is a HER, BTW...LOL...


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OOOPS, I stand corrected. Muchas gracias, Mimi blush

How about this - A study of G-ds word with different eyes

Or you name it. smile


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"Theological Ponderings"

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"Theological Ponderings"

I love this..... Mark?

Thank you


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How about...Pondering Scripture or something to that effect. Don't know if I'm qualified to discuss "Theology."


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I'll find it, no matter what it's called...

Just don't make it so serious that I have to live up to too much...

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You got it dude.



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Theos = G-d in Greek, doesn't it?

Logos = word or study, isn't it?

Spiritual might be another comparable term for this situation.

Any Hitchiker's Guide to the Universe fans?

Pondering the 'ultimate question of life, the universe, and everything'

There's you a title!

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Of course by the time that question is answered, there is no one left who remembers the question.

Don't Panic

This is so depressing...

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Originally Posted by Mark1952
How about...[
I'll find it, no matter what it's called...

Just don't make it so serious that I have to live up to too much...

LOL, You should see some of the questions I've been sending Mark... and that's only covering one book. We haven't get to the deep stuff yet... I think he's scared now. LOL


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Hey TMTS, Why not just join us on the new thread and we'll all study together.

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