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MEDC - I can't believe that you are posting this stuff as a former law enforcement officer. The betrayed husband was COMPLETELY wrong.
And I would be willing to bet that the husband DOES have a record. Sodomy speaks of a lack of respect for women. I believe the same thing, believer. I'll bet he DOES have a record. The trick will be if it will end up being admitted as evidence. Defense attorneys always do whatever they can to keep that kind of thing out, as you know. Charlotte
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But no matter what, the OM got what he deserved. ITD. It was WAY far and beyond "over the top." Charlotte
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We used to have hookers cry rape... That's when they didn't get paid. Just charge the guy with "theft of services". I agree with medc. The guy got what he deserved. Actually, he got off keeping his joint. Too bad. I think he crossed the line with what he did to his wife though.
Change the changeable, accept the unchangeable and remove yourself from the unacceptable.
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It was WAY far and beyond "over the top." Nah...WAY over the top would have been the BH sodomizing the OM. As it stands, it was just an attempt to give him a sex change. I am sad it didn't work....he should have cut it off and fed it to him! That would teach this and every other OM a valuable lesson.
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YIKES!!!! I can't believe these men...............
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YIKES!!!! I can't believe these men............... yeah, you women are so evolved. :crosseyedcrazy:
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Yep, we are. Almost like a different species.
I know there have been women that went crazy, like Betty Broderick, and the woman in Texas who ran her WH over 6 times with her car, with his daughter in the car.
But most of us realize that no man is worth getting locked up.
Men, on the other hand, have this macho thing going........
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Medc, this is a newbie Los Angeles County deputy sheriff so no priors. What he actually did is beyond abhorent regardless of motivation and NO cop in this department is high fiving what this maniac did. The only good thing to come out of this is he never hit the streets as a deputy.
You might want to be more careful about what you say if you are planning on law enforcement as a career, MEDC, it isn't exactly healthy thinking to be applauding the torture of another human being. Writing that this should have gone even farther is disturbing, especially since you want to be a cop!
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And MEDC WAS a cop before.
But I think he is just fantacizing.
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If he ever was a cop he should already know about covering his bases. Psych evals are tough (obviously should be tougher since this particular fool made it in). These types of "fantasies" (sp?) are wrong, period.
I somehow doubt that the Harleys intended these forums to be a place to encourage and applaud crime. Dwelling on evil thoughts isn't mentally healthy. Cheering evil on and wishing it was even worse still seems to get some small acceptance here, apparently. SAD, SAD, SAD.
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Just a thought you should be able to get professional grade gelding equipment at any farm supply. Agway perhaps
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