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Long Term Relationship, but never got married
#2159536 11/17/08 02:40 AM
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We were together for over six years. We have a son that is almost five. She left four months ago,and i have been trying to get her back ever since,but due to the fact we weren't married i think it made it easier for her to leave. Anyway i have a pretty good idea of what went wrong,and i want to work on it,i must work on it, because she is the love of my life. It just seems that she gave up. How do i go about getting her back when she is already gone and is convinced there is the perfect relationship out there somewhere and she wouldn't be happy. How do i get the relationship back from withdrawl to intimacy, because she loves this conflict stage.
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Why does she love the conflict stage? What does that mean?

If you get her interest back, will you ask her to marry you?
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when ever she has any conflict in her life i'm still the first person that gets called. I am the only person that she will confront,whether or not i'm responsible for it.
As for the marriage question i did ask her to marry me, we just never got a date set. It was most likely going to be this coming summer.

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