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I left after I had confirmed all I thought I needed to confirm, but then I came back. Dee -- why did you come back without negotiating a fair return? As a condition for returning to the marriage -- you should have demanded the truth. Why is the price to your heart so low?
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Barnboy - welcome to Notable Posts ! 
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DeeDee,
You don't have to prove to him that he is having an affair, he already knows he is. He just wants you to give up your means of messing with his affair. Don't.
What we think or what we know or what we believe is, in the end, of little consequence. The only consequence is what we do. ~ John Ruskin
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Thanks everybody.All is good advice. Here are my two issues though.
1. he won't admit even using his cell phone despite my proof of calls. basically the phone calls and texts by itself (according to him).
2. when I left, I came back 4 days later. Now is is SUPER DUPER nice and I am torn as to what it means. I would LOVE to think its because he's afraid of losing me and his family but my intelligence tells me otherwise. I was gone less than 24 hrs and he had already gotten an attorney!
Anyone have any ideas about the these two issues?
Last edited by deedee2; 11/06/09 01:23 PM.
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DEE
scroll to the top of this thread (right above your first post)
look for the button that says
"topic options"
click on it
then click on the choice that says
"add to my watched topics"
If you do this, you'll get an email when there is a reply.
Neat !
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Barnboy - welcome to Notable Posts ! Umm... I'm not sure what this means, Pepperband. Clue me in?
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Barnboy - welcome to Notable Posts ! Umm... I'm not sure what this means, Pepperband. Clue me in?
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