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I guess at some point the drooling thing jsut gets to them?  Eww really? drooling? I shall have to ask DD17 next time I see her if its much of a problem 
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Queenie, how long were you in Plan A?
BS:35(me)
WH:32
DS 12/8
OW1: 2004 EA/PA?
ILYBNILWY 4/09
OW2 2008/2009 EA/PA?
Separated: 06/14/09
D-Day: OW3 PA 06/20/09
Am I married to a Serial Cheater?
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I started Plan A unbeknownest to be almost immediately, without realizing that it was Plan A. In August I really started focusing on it as Plan A, in October I went into a "unprepared" Plan B. It was at that time I met up with someone very special to me, Mimi and she took me under her wings.
From that day forward I became very purposeful in my Plan A, knowing that I was ultimately going into to Plan B..
As you can imagine, what I did, was NOT what Dr. Harley suggested.
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
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Just wanted to say hello since I was stopping by again!
lol, what in the world do you ever mean you DID not DO what was suggested by Dr. Harley?
We, MBers, don't do that kind of thing huh? ;D
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Just wanted to say hello since I was stopping by again!
lol, what in the world do you ever mean you DID not DO what was suggested by Dr. Harley?
We, MBers, don't do that kind of thing huh? ;D Hey Rin, thanks for stopping by......  No US MBers NEVER do what we are NOT supposed too. 
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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Hey Queenie, stopping by to say Hi. How is the nose ring thing going?
Make sure DH does not lead you around by the nose!!!
What a Monday!
Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09
Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
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It's still in and I can still feel it, but it's getting better. I can assure people nothing comes out when I blow my nose. The hole isn't that big, so my co-workers are safe. Hope, He NEVER lead me around by the nose and I'm not about going to start now. But it's a stud, not ring... LOL What makes is such what a Monday?
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BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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a nose ring, Queenie? Hippie  You sound great!
Me-BS-38
Married 1997; son, 8yo
Divorced April 2009
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It's a nose stud. GODDESS style. Sheek, dainty but just enough to say I have arrived. 
Last edited by QueeniesAdventures; 11/16/09 08:38 PM.
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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OMG, lol, I can not picture you with it! That's awesome!
Coming from someone with MY piercing and tats! personally, I couldn't pull that one off with my boss!
Queenie's got a little freak in her! LOL
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My boss was actually very intrigued which totally blew me away. She was asking all kinds of questions. Now... I go up to my 2nd job, the Amway deal. We shall see how I make the cut there. Why yes she does. I was thinking about a tatoo, but the Jew in me doesn't really know yet. 
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D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
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I love my tattoo's! And because I was smart about situating them, no one sees them unless I chose for them to, not even in one piece swim wear. Two piece is another story..... 
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Wow, tattoos, nose rings, body piercings -- I am so out of it.
I did used to wear bell bottoms and a peace sign.
Hope = no tats, no holes (except XH), no fun!!
Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09
Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
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Before I got my nose done, there was a lady there getting two head lights and a hood job pierced. I was told that the head lights are the most painful place on our entire body and if you can do it there you can do it anywhere.... 
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
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Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09
Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
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Actually he told me that it wouldn't hurt too much for a day or two because your body was in such shock. BUT THEN....  OY VEY..... You would PAY for that?
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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Hi Queenie! (JT's glad to be waving because we didn't get blown away in the last two wind storms...another one is coming tomorrow)
Hi Lil, Rin et al-Queenie's nose ring really is very "Queenie" as she says-sleek and dainty, with just the right amount of glitter to be a true goddess.
Love ya'
johnstwin-
"I may not know what the future holds, but I know who holds my future." -Martin Luther
Remarried my FXH 25 years to the day of our first M. God is so good-and sometimes so unexpected!
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But how do you pick your nose with that thing in there?
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09
Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
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