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Originally Posted by Fred_in_VA
Excuse me: t/j?

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Oops. Guilty. Sorry.


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no sweat... I took a long time to learn the lingo.. A LONG time.

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hey beautiful,
just stopping by to say hello and hug


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Hello gorgeous. How are you you sexy thing..


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The Redskins may about to BEAT the Saints..

OMG

Thank you G-d...

OMG


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Aw... now you've probably jinxed them.


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Go Skins!

Under 2 minutes to go...

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But it isn't going to be easy...


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ARGHHHH. Overtime.


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this seems to be a common theme this season... get sooo close!


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It doesn't look so good. Darn


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DARN NIT..... OH WELL..

I LOVE THEM NO MATTER WHAT


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I'm surprised at home many Redskins fans there are here. I wonder if there's a correlation...


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That's been what they have been doing all season... they get so close sometimes but just can't seem to hold it in the end. I think they will make a solid team in the next few years. They at times have a hard time playing as a cohesive team at the very end. Better luck next time!!


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And my first reaction is to call/text WW and ask her what she thought of the game (she's a fan, too). Of course, I'm indigo DARK at this point (and beginning to get used to it).


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Fred,

I'm not a Skins fan, just a supporter of Queenie. If the Bears and the Skins ever play, don't look for my to be in red and gold...

Doesn't look like the playoffs are going to happen for either of us this year. So I can root for the Skins for now.

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Hi,

I am seriously intrepid about posting this. But contemplated for two to three days a friend of mine told me about this website. I have read some of the articles, and there is a lot of truth and straight forward candor here. So that is the sole reason why I choose to post this here in this particular forum. Maybe someone here that has "been on the other side" can share their whatever they choose to.


Almost two years ago. After my STBX and I decided to get a D. and eventually the word got out thru my work enviroment that I had chosen what I was doing. People and co workers offered their words of condolences, and such forth.. Well a person that doesn't work directly work with me, but a off set ancillary service. Anyway.. He told me that he understood what he was going through and if I needed to talk he would " lend a ear", so we talked at work when he came in, and long story short, yeah, you know what is coming,, " it happened",, yep go ahead,, I have heard all of names, heard all of the stories..

This was almost two years ago.But not a day doesnt' go by that I know on every conscious level, every remorseful level that I don't REGRET what I did...

My closet friends and other people who know me, say that I am being too hard on myself, that I have to let go and move on.. I have had oppurtunity to go out on dates, and " move on".. I am at more peace than I was almost two years ago.. But there is a part of a song " that the past won't let you choose".That hits the nail on the head,... I never used to be one of " those people", granted there are people, too many unfortunately that does this sort of thing on a regular basis, why? I don't know, and probably don't want to know. But even one event, forever changes you.. My one big regret,something that has changed me and changes my STBX. He had the right to know and I refuse to stand behind my mistake, I think that fact alone has made me alot stronger....


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Anna,
Why not start your own thread? I'm a little confused by your post. You are divorcing and while you waited for D you cheated on STBX? Why has D taken two years? Do you have kids? Are you seeking to save your M?

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Almost two years because just a matter of logic. I make way more than he does. And his lawyer tried to get a lot more than what STBX was entitled to.. Yes I have two amazing little people. And no! am not seeking to save my M....I am stronger for the ordeal,

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