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This week's snoop report:
So far the cell phone records are revealing no activity as far as an OW.
What I do see is that the picture messages from the male friend with dirty jokes, etc still continue.
The EBlaster is revealing a little less than 10 minutes of porn a few nights a week. No inappropriate emails or anything like that.
Some will say he may have taken his "affair" deeper underground; however, I really don't sense or see anything. Still snooping...
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I am glad that you haven't found anything inappropriate on the keylogger. I agree that for your own personal state of mind you can snoop but don't become obsessive. That can also hurt your M. Trust but verify. You are a big help on these boards too. 
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING  Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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No big chance of me becoming obsessive with this. The EBlaster makes things effortless -just the way I prefer it LOL!
...plus I really don't get the sense that he's cheating...seriously.
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You are a big help on these boards too. Thanks
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No big chance of me becoming obsessive with this. The EBlaster makes things effortless -just the way I prefer it LOL!
...plus I really don't get the sense that he's cheating...seriously. I have my fingers and TOES crossed for you. This is not something I would wish on ANYONE. It would be better to KNOW what you are up against that's all. I am glad that you are getting some kind of peace of mind.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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What Scottie said.
Here's hoping you find NOTHING.
And if you do, "know thy enemy".
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Nothing so far everyone....
For month 1 the average amt of porn viewing was just under 7 minutes per day.
Other snooping revealed nothing.
We completed the Seminar & are now into the MB Lessons.
My feelings on the porn have evolved as we are completing our Lessons. And, unfortunately, they have evolved for the worse...meaning - the more I am learning what a healthy marriage should be, I am beginning to resent the porn viewing although it appears to be small.
I am talking with our MB Coach about this.
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