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I was just told that my mdeication costs $125 dollars! I want to just cry
I can not afford that in anyway! Tell the docs that you cannot afford that. Ask them to put you on a GENERIC version of something. They do it all the time.
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I took 0.5 of ativan also....I took it a did not get addicted, no problems getting off of it...I just dont get why they wont give you something for NOW!
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There is no generic for lexapro, sadly...but maybe they can prescribe you something else. There are so many...I think Lexapro is just the drug companies "new" thing right now...they can give you something else that has a generic.
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This situation is more than I can process right now!
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BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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Really, lisa...You need to make an appt with a Psychiatrist, that will give you the meds you need.
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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Hang in there lady! I know its difficult, lets just try to get this day threw!
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Have appointment for next week
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Okay, that is GREAT.....They will give you what you need!!!!! Now we just got to get you through this week.
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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Now we just got to get you through this week And we will do that one hour at a time. You CAN do this. You WILL do this. Like Mark said, just focus on meeting ENs and NOT LBing. That's IT. No worries. I KNOW YOU CAN DO THIS.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING  Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Lisa --
Stop having conversations with you husband until you understand how to handle him via Plan A.
Just take a break.
Everything he is saying to you right now is trying to convince you that his thinking is right. He's trying to justify all the reasons for leaving you. The reality is that he has handled all of this HORRIBLY WRONG. He's provoking you into fighting with him or having angry outbursts because then that helps him build his case against you. Its almost like you are an accomplice to his destruction!
You have to stop listening to him! This is really really critical. You cannot absorb his CRAP.
Watch his ACTIONS not his WORDS. He's calling you. He's coming over. Those are actions. Stop listening to his wayward BABBLE.
When you really get the hang of Plan A, you will use every interaction with him to make him fall more in love with you.
Use YOUR POWER. And if you feel like you are about to lovebust -- GET OFF THE PHONE. You should be the one to end every phone call. Leave him wanting more...
If for some reason you are in a bad mood, sad mood, or don't feel like you can work your plan at the moment -- DON'T ANSWER THE PHONE! Or get away from him if he is there!
From this moment on, WH only gets to see Bright Shiny Lisa.
Get it?
Flirt with your husband.
Admire him.
Be sweet.
Be thoughtful.
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Have appointment for next week Okay, but a week can be a long time in a sitch like this. Do not hesitate to go to the ER *today* for something like Ativan. They will write for it and I got mine for $4.00 at Wal-Mart pharmacy.
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He called me to get me to renew his motorcyle registration!
I was very shocked after the fight we had but I called him abck after my meeting ended and said no problem I will do it for you.
He was very cold on the phone amd then said thank you and I said no problem and hung up!
Havent called him or texted him since!
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See, one step at a time...you handled that well.
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I think maybe some antural remedies for anxiety can help?
Any suggestions? If not I will have to get a script at the ER
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Yeah, natural remedies help....But at this moment you are beyond that....If you can, go to the ER...You need something, this situation is traumatic...Its like a sudden death..you need something now.
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And dont be afraid to let go in there...if you feel like crying dont hold back...I was a mess.
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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I feel like he is looking at me like a ticking time bomb!
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You're right, he is.
He's using your behavior to justify his.
So take that ammunition away from him.
Did you read my previous post to you?
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Yes I did I am going to do this! I just wish I could keep my anxiety and panic in check!
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