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Originally Posted by Bubbles4U
Melody, it is kind of amazing to me that you, a mod, would violate TOS like this. Are you using your power as a MOD to violate TOS yet the regular posters (who are not trolls) are NOT allowed to violate TOS?

Now wait a minute! I thought I was Clark Kent? Which is it?? skeptical

dis is very twicky... very... skeptical


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KILTED, ASKED AND ANSWERED. See my answer up above. You like pileons right? I see how much fun you are having insulting me.

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Originally Posted by Bubbles4U
Melody, it is kind of amazing to me that you, a mod, would violate TOS like this. Are you using your power as a MOD to violate TOS yet the regular posters (who are not trolls) are NOT allowed to violate TOS?

Are you sure that you should be talking about other posters violating the TOS? Have you decided to start posting advice strictly from MB perspectives instead of contrasting advice yourself?


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Melodylane:

Here is what I believe. I believe there are several posters who are mods. In addition to this, I believe that several posters who are mods also post "stories" to keep the board going.

So technically yes, you could be a Mod, and a Poster and a Troll all at the same time.

This is just what I have come to believe and I could be wrong in some cases.

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Keep going, Kilted. I know you love insulting me. You are getting your "thrill for the day".

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Originally Posted by Bubbles4U
KILTED, ASKED AND ANSWERED. See my answer up above. You like pileons right? I see how much fun you are having insulting me.

Care to show me where I insulted you?


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Kilted, you ALWAYS insult me in any way you can. I never can find a word of helpful advice toward me or any kindness. Even as I think well of you and your fitness goals, you insult me, join in this public whipping I am recieving now, etc.

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Originally Posted by Bubbles4U
Melodylane:

Here is what I believe. I believe there are several posters who are mods. In addition to this, I believe that several posters who are mods also post "stories" to keep the board going.

So technically yes, you could be a Mod, and a Poster and a Troll all at the same time.

This is just what I have come to believe and I could be wrong in some cases.

I think you need a new hobby. Government Conspiracies comes to mind...

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Originally Posted by Bubbles4U
Keep going, Kilted. I know you love insulting me. You are getting your "thrill for the day".

Actually, I haven't thrown one insult out. However, in the past, you have been accusatory towards me and attempted to bait me.


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I am waiting to see what this board is made of and if the insulting words will be edited out. Most likely they will not since the Mods do not care about me, my life, my feelings, or if TOS violates ME.

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KILTED, I asked you about your fitnese ideas and working with 30 women in your spare time. I wanted to see where you stood on working closely with that many women other than your own wife. I did not bait you I asked you.

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Kilted, in the PAST you have insulted me. Do I hold that against you? NO. I just notice the PRESENT insults and cuts you are trying right now against me.

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Come on, i want more punishment!!!! Take out ALL your frustrations on me today!!! I am printing this whole thing off as a testament to the unfairness of the board MODS who I used to love and write songs about.

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Originally Posted by Bubbles4U
Kilted, you ALWAYS insult me in any way you can. I never can find a word of helpful advice toward me or any kindness. Even as I think well of you and your fitness goals, you insult me, join in this public whipping I am recieving now, etc.

I think ALWAYS is a bit extreme. What I have asked of you before is why you come here and post contrasting MB advice and do so in a bunch of capital letters. Then you accused me of having a poor understanding of female sexuality because I mentioned I didn't understand why one would cry. Then you tried to bait in that whole personal training and women thread.

I'm sorry you perceieve that I'm picking on you. And I'm sorry that you feel I'm insulting to you. But I think you won't find one time when I've said anything negative to you as a person...but rather the way your advice comes off. How many posters wouldn't get banned for posting contrasting opinions over and over again against what MB is built upon.



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I dont use caps anymore. You remember hurtful things Kilted. Well, think of this:

I remember hurtful things too!

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My issues don't come from an XGF dating somebody else. They come from my sense of entitlement as a wayward from before I even met XGF. I carried this sense of entitlement into my relationship with XGF. I started dating XGF during my divorce. No I didn't cheat on XGF. I was honest with XGF about my infidelity during my marriage with XBS.

During our relationship, at the most I was a Renter. She was a Buyer during our relationship. So instead of focusing myself on my relationship with XGF, I've been focusing on MB to understand how I can become a person without that sense of entitlement.

If there are people that believe that I have duped them into thinking I'm an Uber-MBer, I truly apologize. I am not ML by any stretch of the imagination.


That's enough for now.

MODS please move this thread to SAA.

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Kilted if you look at the bigger picture, it is important to have a few contrasting opionions so that the MB concepts can be better illustrated, expanded and "defended" so to speak.

In other words, a painting would be one dimentional if everything was the same, but with some strange or different brush strokes, it comes alive. I am sometimes a good "background" for a nice painting to enable it to shine.

And not everyone believes in carrying out the concepts the same exact way. We are all different as human beings.

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Originally Posted by Bubbles4U
I am waiting to see what this board is made of and if the insulting words will be edited out. Most likely they will not since the Mods do not care about me, my life, my feelings, or if TOS violates ME.

Bubbles, this is an disrespectful judgement on my part, but I think you're taking this too seriously and way too personally. This is anonymus internet forum full of people that you will never meet.

It's kinda like when I go online and game. I'm conversing with others and playing against others and playing with others. But I don't know those people other than on Xbox live. When I turn off the Xbox, they all go away. And if one of them wants to throw insults...eh...so. I don't know em.


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Hey Mods! Dont move this thread quite yet. I need more and more abuse!!!! That you will not monitor or erace. Please give me more abuse! More TOS against me, whoops I used caps...Sorry Kilted.

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I guess if only one person began insulting me I would just go and avoid the board for a while or ignore them. But when a few posters and two mods get into the insults, with extreme relish, well, then I get kind of feeling abused. It triggers my past abuse.

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